Answer questions on female masturbation......?(Girls only please!! Sorry if gros!
Question: Last night, and for a few weeks now I've been masturbating, but I don't get an orgasm out of it, let all much...pleasure in general.
I have tried a few things like; watching adult movies, getting completely naked, making a thrusting motion when I finger myself, carressing my boobs/stroking my vagina and then doing it....I get feelings sometimes, but they're not great/good......Am I doing something wrong???
Are there any other things that can help, apart from fingering and sex toys (i live with my parents!). Also, is there a certain part of your vagina to touch to achieve extreme pleasure, and quickly...if so what/where?
And finally how often do you think its wise to masturbate? I was thinking every 3/4 months or so....
Answers: Last night, and for a few weeks now I've been masturbating, but I don't get an orgasm out of it, let all much...pleasure in general.
I have tried a few things like; watching adult movies, getting completely naked, making a thrusting motion when I finger myself, carressing my boobs/stroking my vagina and then doing it....I get feelings sometimes, but they're not great/good......Am I doing something wrong???
Are there any other things that can help, apart from fingering and sex toys (i live with my parents!). Also, is there a certain part of your vagina to touch to achieve extreme pleasure, and quickly...if so what/where?
And finally how often do you think its wise to masturbate? I was thinking every 3/4 months or so....
I know you said "girls only", but I am a practicing gynecologist. I hope you'll allow my input on this tender subject.
My advice is this... go for gentle and subtle. Concentrate on lightly touch, lightly stroke. Forget thrusting motions and such.
One other bit of advice... Get a little bit of warm water, and put some baby oil into this water. Mix it well and then dip your finger into it. This will make your fingers smooth and silky and will make gentle and subtle more effective. (and it's a nice warm feel, too.)
One last thing. work on being "around" the edges of your vagina, and up above your opening. Worry less about being "inside" your vagina.
John Jones, M.D.
First of all, do you know what a clitoris is? Look it up.
Other than that, I'm no expert, but most women swear by the shower head in the bathtub. Don't run up to big a water bill at your parents house though.
have you tried fantasizing? turn the lights off and try not to think about what you're doing just focus on the sensations when you move your fingers differently. 3/4 months???
Sometimes I do it every day - 3 times the other day :D you can't really do it too much - at least women can't :D men probably get more sore lol
Every women is different. You have to explore what works for you. Usually when I masterbate I only touch the top part of my clit. For me inserting things in my vagina would not acheive and orgasm. Sex toys are also a turn off for me. All I can say is keep trying and don't be embarrased we all do it.
You gotta find your clitoris, get comfortable and try your way around. Penetration by fingers doesn't really cut the trick for anyone, and you neither babe..
Just touch yourself gently and see what makes you shiver. Everyone has different preferences.
Knowing your body will also give you a much better sex life in the future!
C-L-I-T-O-R-I-S
It's located at the very top of the vagina, has the size of a tiny tiny pea..
dear friend
as i see you are a beginner
at first i recomend you to simulate your clitoris .
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clitoris
do it when u feel which u need it
You need to masturbate using your finger and rubbing your clit, go in a small circle motion and gradually get faster and faster, it may take a while the first couple times until you get to know your body. I don't think there is a set amount of time to do it just when you feel the need to, I think it is natural and Healthy.
You could be missing your touch on your clitoris or just inside.
Do it as often as you wish.
the pleasure comes if you do it once in a while, not all the time.