It's insane. A lot of young girls want kids but most of them know better. Kids are hard work and expensive and a lifetime commitment. Some adults aren't even ready for the task. Just take your time.
Go ahead please, It will make me feel better. Misery loves company I have a 10 yr old and I want other peoples lives to be ruined by having kids to young. So please do it
Why do youwant to be pregnant. Its not only a danger to you, but to your baby. At 14 (i just turned 16...) Your body MAY not
be able to go through the changes causing you to have an premature birth.
Maybe you should go to some parenting classes, get alot of information.
Take home a baby simulater that is basically a kid 24/7 Crying, bathroom, eating.. but its a doll. SO you can really get the expierence.
Good luck
It's normal to FEEL this way....it is NOT healthy, rational or realistic to ACT on this feeling.
You have your whole life ahead of you to be a mom....start with baby-steps, like babysitting first!
yea its normal im 14 too and i would love to get pregant and have a cute baby to take care of but were obvisouly not ready for these kind of things and have to wait until were older but yea its ok
You're hyper on female hormones right now, and it will pass.
Just have the good sense not to act on those feelings in the mean time.
Finish school, finish college, get a job, get your life in order, find a good, caring, responsible partner, and settle down before you seriously consider getting pregnant.
no that is not normal if you get pregnant you will ruin your whole life trust me you will ruin yours the father's and the babies trust me no 14 year old girl is ready for something that big i wasnt ready and not i dropped out of school to support my wife and my to babies its hard trust me im 14 also
your crazy woman. I am 29 and i dont even want a baby yet. How in the heck at 14 are u ready to have a baby?
are you gone mad???? you are toooo young for that, you should wait for atleast 4 years more. its a big responsibility
You need to specify if you're looking forward to getting pregnant in the future (for instance when you're married and ready to start a family) or you want to get pregnant right now.
Wanting to get pregnant isn't bad in itself. When I was 15 I looked forward to having children. But it's something to look forward to.
Do not by any means get pregnant until you're married and ready to start your family!!!
It's worth waiting for, trust me.
It's pretty normal for young girls to see pregnant women and really have the want for that. It looks really cool/fun to young girls. Having the belly and just the thought of having a baby makes girls want to just go out and get pregnant.
But it is a lot harder than it all looks. And nobody really thinks of what comes along with that belly. A baby that turns into a child then into a preteen and then into a real teenager then into an adult. They are apart of your life forever. They cost so much. It's not something a 14 year old could handle right now.
I would advise you to wait a very long time. Until you are an adult and have a job and can handle a baby and raising it into an adult..
Hope I helped!
It is normal to feel your maternal side but not normal to want a kid at 14... They are a lot of work....
usually16to 21 years are good for pregnancy and to with stand the labour pain. 14 years is too small a age and records are available having given birth, your desire may be punishable.
Normal in the same sense that you are looking forward to being old enough to drive, looking forward to being old enough to get married, looking forward to being old enough to have a family. Yes that is normal. Being 14 and pregnant is not only NOT normal, it's a BAD idea. Let me tell you why
1. Your body is not done growing, as you are still A CHILD yourself. You need to allow your body to mature build bone, strengthen muscle, and store up for the pressures and demands of pregnancy.
2. You are not financially independent. Do you have a full time job? Are you finished with school? Do you have an apartment, or home of your own to bring this baby to? OR are you still living with mom and dad? Yeah. You know why you are still living with mom and dad? because you are 14 and still a child yourself. Don't even tell me you will live with your boyfriend. Unless he is out of school, has a full time job and can support you, a baby, himself and a nanny to watch that baby for the next 4 years while you are still in high school then NO he is still a child as well.
3. You aren't married. I know this kind of goes along with #2, but seriously, you should get married first. Don't you want that life? The good one? The one with a great husband who has a nice job, a nice house, nice cars, the picket fence, the swimming pool, the lessons for the kids, the financial freedom to go on vacations, the time to do charity work and all that? That life is not the life you will have at 14 with a baby.
At 14 you will have this life: either no education which means a crap job or Either your mother raising your child or a stranger at some daycare raising your child while you finish school. Your baby will be nearly kindergarten age by the time you are done with school. Do you realize that? You won't have time to bond with her/him. Say you decide to drop out of school, marry the daddy and stay home with the baby. The dad can't possibly be over 18 (or he'd end up in jail for statutory rape). So he has a high school diploma. Let's say he's really bright and gets a decent job starting at $10 an hour. So he makes about $1600 a month. Let's take out taxes (at 15%). That leaves you with $1300. Take out rent (about $600) that leaves you with $700. Now for the regular bills:
Cable& internet - $120
Landline Phone - $50
Cell Phone - $50
Electric - $110
Gas - $70
Water/Trash/Sewer - $40
Car payment/insurance and gas - $300
Diapers $80-120 a month
Formula - $160 a month
Groceries for you and hubby - $300-$500 a month
Unfortunately those things add up to another $1200- 1450. Which is Way above your budget. That doesn't include clothes, movies, furniture etc..
I suppose you could live in a rent controled apartment, go on welfare, food stamps, skip the cable, internet, car, phones, etc. and you might be able to scrape by. But that is alot of stress on a very young marriage.
Just wait. Don't be in such a hurry. There is plenty of time.
Enjoy your life now. Go to high school. Find a passion for something. Go to your prom. Find a good MAN. Get married. Then have kids.
Do you have a father in your life? People in your life who don't give you enough love can make you feel like you need to replace it with a baby. My parents split up when i was 10 and i've wanted a baby since i was 11. I've managed not to get pregnant yet tho. I know it's best to bring a baby into the world when it has two loving parents who can financially support their baby and not sponge off the government for benifits. What is the big rush? Live your life abit first and get your own house and save some money. On average parents spend