I dont always orgasm during sex is there anything wrong ?!
Question: I dont always reach an orgasm during sex. and my boyfriend always asks if the sex was good...I dont want to dissapoint him by saying no...what should i do.?
Answers: I dont always reach an orgasm during sex. and my boyfriend always asks if the sex was good...I dont want to dissapoint him by saying no...what should i do.?
You tell him ofcourse the sex was good, a woman doesn't always have an orgasm. Sometimes our bodies just doesn't let it happen no matter how he or we try. It doesn't mean your guy is not getting the job done. There is only so many ways one can move to have an orgasm, if it's not going to happen, it's just not going to happen. Stress is a huge factor that may cause issues when it comes to not being able to have an orgasm, even if you don't think your are stressed. Your subconcious mind maybe on other things even when you think your are totally into being sexual with your boyfriend. Don't worry about it, just enjoy and it will happen. The more you stress about not having an orgasm..the more you will not allow yourself to be open to having one. Always remember the worst thing you can say to a man is that they didn't please you...that hurts their ego's completely.
Get a new boyfriend who can please you better.
Be honest with him. How is he going to know how to please you if you don't give him true feedback? You could even show him how you like to be touched. It's OK to experiment and teach each other. Heck, it's better than OK, it's FUN!
BYW, not every woman has an orgasm every time. So much of sex happens in our head that if we're worried, stressed, PMS, angry, etc., it makes it more difficult to orgasm.
It is normal not to orgasm all the time while you have sex. It all really depends in the position you use, and the person you are having sex with. Usually, whenever you have a boyfriend, he basically gets used to what you like and therefore does it every time in order to satisfy you all the time. What I believe you should do in order to orgasm all the time is telling him. Tell him what feels good to you, as he will that way know what is what gives you pleasure and do it all the time. If you lie to him and tell him it feels good when you dont really feel anything, you will in the end be affected. You usually reach an orgasm when he touches the Gspot which is inside you on your inner vaginal walls. So try different positions and let him know what feels good to you. In the end communication is the best way out.
There is nothing wrong. Orgasm depends a great deal on the attitude of your mind and the handling of the situation by your partner. It is induced by stimulation of the clitoris partly during the penetration of the penis and partly as the result of the clitoris being rhythmically pressed against the male after penetration. In addition there should be extra genital areas of sexual stimulation. The erogenic area vary with the individual and their susceptibility to stimulation is equally variable, but their aggregate response is cumulative and plays a vital part in the ultimate achievement of an orgasm.
tell him to try something different to get an orgasm. dont keep telling him its fine when its not.