Is it okay if my first time hurt and bled?!
Question: I'm 18, and two days ago I had sex for the first time. My partner was gentle and carful, though I was really tight. Sex hurt a bit, and afterwords I bled quite a bit.
However, my "wuzzie" is now still sore and a little blood still comes out once in a while, and it looks irritated. My questions are:
How long does it take to heal?
Is there anything I should do to help it heal or relieve pain?
How long should I wait before intercourse again?
At what point should I see a doctor?
Answers: I'm 18, and two days ago I had sex for the first time. My partner was gentle and carful, though I was really tight. Sex hurt a bit, and afterwords I bled quite a bit.
However, my "wuzzie" is now still sore and a little blood still comes out once in a while, and it looks irritated. My questions are:
How long does it take to heal?
Is there anything I should do to help it heal or relieve pain?
How long should I wait before intercourse again?
At what point should I see a doctor?
Dont worry, its all completly normal. It could take a few days longer before the pain starts to go and the bleeding stops. If i was you, id give it a few days after the pain has gone before you have sex again. And maybe use some lube next time as this will help if you are still a bit tight. Try not to tense up too much on your next time though, cos the pain you went through this time will not be as bad on your 2nd time :o) You may still have some pain, but the after affects shouldnt be so bad or last for so long. Hope that helps a bit
wat u are going thru is normal...it wil take 1 week to heal (until u have sex agian before that)
1st few times u will continue to bleed
you dont need to see a dr..just be hygenic so u dont get infections
PS: It will be some time before you start enjoying it
dw thats just your skin in ur wuzzie thats been broken ... idk wat it is but its something to do with virginity but yeh its just shows now your not a virgin anymore
Your "wuzzie" should heal up pretty fast. If it was your first time you were probley a little tense so your wuzzie could of got tight that way. Eventually you will relax and it'll get better. You'll know when it's right again to do it, just use common sense for that one.
nah you should be fine. You body has just been mildly traumatized. Give yourself another couple days and you should be back to normal. The only thing that should prevent you from having sex again is being sore. Nothing you can do to relieve it tho. If you are still sore in a week call a Dr
I would wait until your are completely healed to have intercourse again to ensure that you do not start bleeding again as that is a very sensitive area of a womans body. I too am very tight down ther but never bled down there my first time thankfully. I wouldn't put anything on it to help it heal as there is too much warmth and moisture as it is down there, you don't want to cause further irritation. You should heal up over the next week or so. You should see a gynecologist when you are ready to do so now that you are sexually active, perhaps you should go on birth controls pills to ensure extra protection against pregnancy.