Getting pregnant at 16?!
Question: Hi so im TTC and yes im 16 dont judge me i want a baby and my boyfriend does also and he is 17. And hes working on getting his GED and i start my first year of college in May (i droped out and got my ged already) Were both very mature, as a matter of fact were like most couples in there 30s exept are age. Dispite what you say we will keep ttc so dont say "no bad idea ect..." I've heard it all belive me we'll do whatever it takes for me to have a child. But anywho i've been TTC since decemeber..... and no luck......? why is that.? I have sex onmy fertil days like my LMP was March the 2nd - 6th had sex the 7th and 13, and 14th period is due in 8 days. Shouldnt it be easy for me to get pregnant since im 16??? Any advice?
Answers: Hi so im TTC and yes im 16 dont judge me i want a baby and my boyfriend does also and he is 17. And hes working on getting his GED and i start my first year of college in May (i droped out and got my ged already) Were both very mature, as a matter of fact were like most couples in there 30s exept are age. Dispite what you say we will keep ttc so dont say "no bad idea ect..." I've heard it all belive me we'll do whatever it takes for me to have a child. But anywho i've been TTC since decemeber..... and no luck......? why is that.? I have sex onmy fertil days like my LMP was March the 2nd - 6th had sex the 7th and 13, and 14th period is due in 8 days. Shouldnt it be easy for me to get pregnant since im 16??? Any advice?
Wait till you older my dear i mean my lord you have so much life to live dont throw it all away. Just wait what will it hurt? If your boyfriend really loves you he'll wait for you =] good luck
Maybe this is a higher power saying you are NOT ready for a baby. Have you looked at your spelling and grammar??? GO BACK TO SCHOOL AND DO NOT HAVE A BABY TILL YOUR AN ADULT! For crying out loud, people!!!
why even ask this question is you KNOW people are gonna "judge" you about it. why even add your age on there if you wanted help?
have fun changing diapers and looking for baby sitters instead of a prom dress. XD
ok. i know it seems like you really want a baby with your boyfriend. But you need to ask yourself if its that smart. Your not old enough to have a GOOD enough education to get a real job to support yourself and a kid, or get a place on your own.
And you say your really mature, but how mature are you if your only 16 and you think you want a baby in this type of society? Who would be supporting you? Honestly, if you really want a baby thats great! But do yourself and the child a favour and wait until your stable enough to take care of it and yourself, by yourself so you dont burden other people.
So why don't you two get married first if you're so mature?
This is the craziest thing I ever heard. Either you want the attention that you knew you would get by asking your question, or you must have some serious issues to want a baby at 16.
Not to mention the fact that your 17 year old boyfriend is just as insane. Do you really think he's going to stay around after the baby comes home crying all night, your so tired you can't stand it anymore. Not to mention the amount of attention you will have to give to that baby. You won't have enough for him anymore.
Wake up!!! stop trying to play house and grow up first.
talk it over with your mum or someone close of an older age with kids. someone eith experience. if you feel ready go for it. but make sure that your boyfriend is the right person and that you can trust him alot. if it feels right then good luck. its your choice but make sure ur certain and have no doubts. go through the cons and pros
dont have a baby that young it is soo hard to have a baby and be able to financially support a child wait a couple of years until you have finished college
College is going to require a lot of time and money - and so is a baby. It's going to be very, very difficult for you and your boyfriend to support a baby and your own education. And at your age (because we can't deny you are young), the job market isn't going to be especially kind to you.
Ideally, you should prioritize. School first, get an education (a solid one, because a GED will only take you so far) - then you can get a good job so you can support your kid. And as much as you love your boyfriend, most teenage relationships do not last (not that yours won't, just the majority of them do not), so take a little more time to plan out your life and see where you are when you actually finish college.
If your reproductive system is working, you'll probably get pregnant eventually, ushering in another child a parent is most likely not ready for. Be fair to your children, please make sure you can support them first.