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Question: Help Me!!!

I know am At the Age for Sex but am 14 and Want to Have Sex what can I do ?


Answers: Help Me!!!

I know am At the Age for Sex but am 14 and Want to Have Sex what can I do ?

i lost it at 14 1/2 exactly... to my hs sweetheart.

if u know how to be safe and feel like u are ready, do it.

but don't screw just to screw. you'll get a bad rap and you'll more than likely regret it.

Cross yr legs and think of yr homework!

Masturbate?

then hhav sex, just make sure u use protection and tell ur mom (or dad) and get birth controll or use condems

Wait a bit longer. It isn't worth the stress and hassle just yet!

remeber wut goes in must come out lol

Talk to a trusted adult about sex. Or go educate yourself.

Learn to pleasure yourself. It is safe and no worry about all the STD's and pregnancy.

Your 14 finish school, enjoy life while you can before you have to worry about paying bills and providing for a child.

You will have plenty of time for sex when you get older.

Please wait until you are older & comfortable enough to answer this question yourself. Just remember, once you've done it, it cannot be taken back. Your 1st time should be with someone that cares about you as much as you care about them.

Ummm...not have sex. in my opinion at 14, you're way too young to be able to deal with the possible consequences of being sexually active.

masturbate and just dont think about it as much ......

are you actually in a relationship?if not, then I'd think long and hard before doing it just cos you fancy having a go. I'ts not just a physical thing, its mental and emotional too. I'm 24 and I first did it at 16 and was in a two yr relationship, but looking back, I was only properly ready at 19/20. I'ts alot to deal with. if your'e not in a relationship and you still want to, becareful, you may get a name for yourself or worse, used. My advice is to bide your time, you have all the time in the world....it is against the law, but if you must, for god's sake, protect yourself every which way you can, cos getting a STD is not fun, believe me. The fact that you've asked this question makes me wonder if you're ready anyway. Becareful, once it's done, it can't be undone so think long and hard. Take care

Think of it this way...

Ask yourself if you are ready for sex. Sure it's fun and feels good and everyone seems to be doing it. But are you ready?

Are you ready to go out and get the necessary protection? Could you handle it (emotionally and financially) if something went wrong? What would you decide to do if you ever became pregnant? Are you educated enough about how your body works to have sex? Do you understand what happens? Do you know your risks and understand the consequences?

Chances are, most of these questions you answered "No" to. And that's good. Because you are so so SO young. Wait. I know people who had sex at a very young age and wish they could take it back more than anything. Too many people on here constantly post about how they wish they had waited longer. Don't be one of those people. Save it for someone special. Save it for when you really are ready.

At 14 you need to wait. Your body is still developing. You have the rest of your life for that. Along with sex comes the worry of pregnancy and diseases. Would you like to raise a child? There have been girls on here that were going to have a baby at 13. So study and enjoy your young free life.

If you have any sense wait a year or 2 longer when hopefully you are more mentally mature. It also becomes legal then!

If you really want to, make sure you're with someone you care about and who cares about you. I waited for someone i cared and am really glad i did. Make sure you're safe, go to your local family planning clinic or Doctor. Protect yourself against STI's and Pregnancy.

Make sure it's the right decision for you because that's the only person you need to make happy!!
xx





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