Diminished libido after childbirth?!
Question: Just wondering how many women had a diminished libido after giving birth? Its been 4 months and, although I do have sex with my hubby, I dont look forward to it and really could care less. Is this normal, has anyone else experienced it? Mature responses only please!
Answers: Just wondering how many women had a diminished libido after giving birth? Its been 4 months and, although I do have sex with my hubby, I dont look forward to it and really could care less. Is this normal, has anyone else experienced it? Mature responses only please!
it's only natural you feel less sexy b/c your mother instincts takes over instead of a single HOT lady that you once were...maintain a healthy diet and exercise can kick start your libido again...or maybe do some minor plastic surgery to make urslef feel sexy again....
I did with my first child. Now that I am pregnant again it has come back full force! I think that its from all the stress and being tired.
I have heard my sister and my frens saying this too. It is kind of normal for probably these reasons .. The wall of the cervix is quite stretcd during child birth and wud remain so fr sometime.. So you kind of dont feel the thing you see ! Also we have just gone thru te labour and we would be lactating which produces hormones.. this actually suppresses the urge .. Dont worry get exercisng stiffen ur muscles and you would be as before soon ! :)
I've had 3 kids, and I can tell you from experiece, it's from the stress of childbirth and child rearing. My youngest is 7 now, and I still have a problem with sex, even though I know I can't have any more kids. Sometimes you get resentment issues as things go along, depending on how much he does or doesn't help. If you find yourself with resentment issues, I STRONGLY suggest you seek counseling.
Hmm this seems to be a common problem after pregnancy. It differs with each people on how long you have to deal with it. Are you on any medications or anything because that will certainly do it. However the childbirth is probably the number one reason. I've had no sex drive before and it's not fun. I tried exercising and dieting to bring it up and nothing worked until I found a natural supplement meant for boosting the libido and providing better orgasms. It's called Hersolution which is the "female viagra". It has to be. Read up about it at herenhancement.com where I saved on it at the time. After a couple days you will know what I'm talking about. Good luck and I hope you get through your troubles.