Why can't I have an orgasm?!
Question: when I use my own hands its not a problem, but the actual feeling of a penis just doesnt stimulate me enough. I've been with guys of all sizes over the years but noting seems to work.I've tried all positions. Is there something wrong with me? Is there anything i can do to help? I dont want to be like this my whole life.
Answers: when I use my own hands its not a problem, but the actual feeling of a penis just doesnt stimulate me enough. I've been with guys of all sizes over the years but noting seems to work.I've tried all positions. Is there something wrong with me? Is there anything i can do to help? I dont want to be like this my whole life.
Because it's the only thing that men can't do for a woman. The internal G spot for women is high up close to the belly button. The organ would have to be bent in that direction to stimulate that spot during the act itself. Not many men are made that way. The majority of women who can get off with a man are about 5% and even that figure may be stretching it. Tons of woman fake it during the act, just to make a guy feel good. Many have never had one so they don't know what they are missing. That helps many men. I love it when a woman says it's our fault. WE DON'T KNOW WHAT MAKES YOU FEEL GOOD........ AND EITHER DO YOU. Don't blame it on the men. We do really try but we just don't have that much time at any given romp. Actually, I think women have too many mental blocks. What are you thinking when you are having sex? The kids, the car, the laundry, your job. You name it, something is going on in there. My wife is always thinking about the next DIY project. I don't even try anymore. She takes care of that herself and then calls me in when she is finished. Men have no mental blocks... once men get started they only have one thing in mind.
Free your mind... it might just help.
Because most women are incapable to have an orgasm by intercourse only they need to have direct stimulation to the clitoris. Also you are so frustrated you can't relax enough and let yourself go when you masturbate you know you are going to achieve it but when you are with a partner you are worrying too much about it happening that you lose sight of enjoying yourself.
Try touching yourself and stimulating your clit while having sex and show your man how to touch you the way you touch yourself. Once you achieve it one time you will stop worrying anf let yourself go.
Have you tried foreplayor maybe you just might not be aroused by the male enough to reach that point I would suggest a long time of him stimulating you before the sex begins see if that helps
Clueless isn't so clueless. Just wanted to add that there are also little strap on vibraters on the market that vibrate the clitoris only and can be worn during sex. This might help!
Generally the male organ does not make contact with the clitoris which is the pleasure center for women. It is perfectly ok to use your fingers during love making. Know thy body and reap the knowledge.
try foreplay before sex, or live out some fantasies ;) it will happen dont worry.