Sex question?? I need major help!!?!


Question: Okay I am 13 and am already wanting sex, obviously I wouldn't have it quite this young, but I definitely plan to have it before marriage. Okay well once I get to college, I want to party and have sex, a lot. I want to experience a lot of different guys before I graduate college, any advice on my idea? Would you do the same? P.S- I'm not a slut or prostiture, just looking for fun, and I would at least get to know them a little before we did anything together.


Answers: Okay I am 13 and am already wanting sex, obviously I wouldn't have it quite this young, but I definitely plan to have it before marriage. Okay well once I get to college, I want to party and have sex, a lot. I want to experience a lot of different guys before I graduate college, any advice on my idea? Would you do the same? P.S- I'm not a slut or prostiture, just looking for fun, and I would at least get to know them a little before we did anything together.

Yeah. Bad idea. Aside from STDs and pregnancy you'll get a reputation as a slut. Once you have that reputation it is very hard to get rid of. Don't you want to be respected? Also, it will leave you feeling very empty. I know at that age (college) many girls want to have a RELATIONSHIP a meaningful one. I am 23 and I recently got engaged. I am young, but if I was running around sleeping with men and partying I wouldn't have who I have because I'd be too busy doing that, getting a bad reputation and feeling empty. I have sex frequently, but it's meaningful sex. I've slept with other partners, it wasn't meaningful and let me tell you that meaningful sex with someone you love is WAY better.

You have no chance of finding a guy who will respect you. But it sounds like that's what you want.

You need to be very careful, actually rethink your decision. There are so many sexually transmitted diseases out there, some of which are lifelong with no cure. Are you ready to die for sex? Educate yourself very well before having sex, especially with several partners. No I would not do the same. Guys will be looking for someone easy to have sex with, you don't want to be that person do you? No you are not a slut or prostitute now but you will be if you follow through with this.

i dnt knw how wil u react 2 ma answer bt sori 2 tel u ya so young n i dnt think gals really nd 2 knw sex b4 marriage......if ya seriously in love wid sum1 u wl naturally involve wid him.....bt bein a gal i wl ntadvice u fr such activity n being open with every guy wl make u so cheap in ya own self..........................
i think u shud share yaself n such a beautiful feelin of sex only wid da guy whu deserve u........hope u wl understand 2 wat i mean 2 tel u.........................

Ya um...thats not good. u should really rethink that. i mean, do u want to have sex with all these guys? u want to get diseases, pregnent, and miserable and throw ur life away just for fun?? ya it seems like fun until the moment is over. wouldn't u rather have a really good guy and live happily ever after?

When you are older and "experiment" be careful. You may get STDs.
You will discover that sexual relationships will vary from person to person.

nope dont do it. im a couple years older than you, and no offense but i somewhat look down on people like you. Do you have no self control whatsoever? please, think of the consequences. guys respect you way more if you say no anyway, makes em want you.
please control your emotions. just because someones mad, doesnt mean they should kill the person that pissed them off,
and just because your horny, doesnt mean you should go around having sex

SWEETY,I THINK AS A MOTHER,I WOULD ADVISE YOU TO A LEAST WAIT FOR THE RIGHT GUY INSTEAD OF EXPLORING,CAUSE THAT WORD CAN GET YOU INTO SOME TROUBLE,,NO YOUR NOT A SLUT BUT DONT TALK LIKE ONE EITHER,HAVING LOTS OF SEX IS OK BUT WITH THE RIGHT MAN,,,SO KNOW THAT THERE IS A LOT OF EFFECTIMG GOING AROUND TO,REMEMBER CONDOM BUST EVERY NOW A THEN TO,SO THAT MAY NOT ALWAYS HELP OR PREVENT YOU OF BECOMING PREGANT OR A DISEASE,,,,GOOD LUCK BABY GIRL THE MOTHER OF ANSWERS

Very bad idea. Not the sex before marriage part. The part about sex with alot of different guys. You will get the reputation of being easy of being a slut wheather you like it or not. The people posting here probably will not change your mind. If you do decide to go out and party and have sex. make sure you get on the pill a few months before you have sex and make surte the guy wears a condom to prevent a STD

i say explore. there is no need in wait for the right guy. they are not looking for anything special and if you don't then you won't get hurt. i say dress as you want and and be who you wanna be. if fun is what you want then fun is what you should have. have fun exploring!

i think you need a psychological advice, ok

There are a lot of other alternatives to having sex. If you are just looking to have fun, with different guys, its called doing different activities. My best friend is 24 and she wants to do the same thing, but instead of sleeping with them, go ahead and say u want to get to know them in a non-sexual manner. Because if you want to put yourself out there like that then you deserve to be called a slut or prostitute. If you want to be respected and want a guy to love u and treat you like a queen then wait to have sex with them. Guys usually tend to respect a female more when she has not had a lot of sex partners. Just because you may lack experience in that arena, don't think that guys won't want to show you a few tricks. Just wait, and re-evaluate this decision of yours.

i think you should wait for that right guy, find some other way to "please" yourself. I am with the man of my dreams now and i know that if i had sex with past boyfriends, our relationship would have a lot of problems because of that. whatever you do to experiment and have fun, you need to realilse that finding a good guy that will be faithful to you will be harder- and finding a guy who has not done all the same things you plan on doing himself with other girls- will be hard. think about how you are going to feel if you were to marry a man who had experimented with all these other girls- and even if you are lucky enough to not get an STD or aids, if he has been around- he may have- then you may get it. i wouldn't sleep around, but everyone is different, just remember to think about the long term consequences.

haha yea u are a slut!

okiesss....... *** to me darling, we hv a go...





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