His penis didn't go in all the way and it really hurt, is this normal?!
Question: Me and my boyfriend were going to have sex for the first time today, I'm a virgen.
He put on a condom and everything but when we tried to get his penis into my vigina it really hurt and we couldn't get it in, we even tried about 5 or 6 times. Is this normal? is there anything we can do to help it?
Answers: Me and my boyfriend were going to have sex for the first time today, I'm a virgen.
He put on a condom and everything but when we tried to get his penis into my vigina it really hurt and we couldn't get it in, we even tried about 5 or 6 times. Is this normal? is there anything we can do to help it?
OKay so let me get this strait your a virgin ok so yeah its going to hurt i mean my first time hurt REALLY BAD and i even got a bad stomach ache after to but yeah its all normal just try to use like lube or what really helps is doing some for play or something before so you get horny or whatever so your ready
It sounds like you weren't really ready to have sex. Your vagina can tighten up if you really aren't emotionally ready to have sex, even if you say that you think you are. Your body tells the truth even when your mind doesn't.
If that's not it, then you need to spend a lot more time on foreplay, like cuddling and kissing. You can also use lubricant, but be sure to buy one that works well with condoms. He can also use his fingers inside you to stretch you.
If the problem persists, you can go to a doctor and ask.
You're a guy...
:O
lube
were you turned on?
if you werent lubed up thats probably whats wrong.
its normal for you to have trouble the first time
Try getting really excited so your vagina is slimy in a way
wait till your older
he's probably...too big for you haha. you can try a lot of foreplay (for you) beforehand and that would help but it may still be painful.
count it a blessing and wait till your married.
Try lubricating your stuff.. I'd say it's normal b/c you haven't been stretched yet, and it's not used to opening up like that. You're probally going to see some blood the first time too..
It will hurt a little because of your hymen but after it breaks you will have some passionate sex
my first time it hurt ALOT and we tried for several times to. i was hot and ready but alittle scared, and i believe when your scared you get more tight that you alread y are.make sure you get lubricants unless your real wet. you will also bleed alittle and the first time you have sex i not the only tme it will hurt. it will happen the first 3 to 4 times but the more you do it the better it will feel
PS. Just make sure this is what you really want. there is no going back....good luck
Foreplay & lubricating the vagina & loly
YES IT'S NORMAL LOTS OF FOREPLAY IS GOOD AND MAKE SURE YOU ARE MOIST DOWN THERE THAT HELPS YOU ARE PROBABLY TIGHTENING UP SO IF THAT'S THE CASE THEN YOUR NOT READY THE FIRST TIME WILL HURT A LOT!!! LOTS OF BLOOD SO DON'T BE SCARED THAT'S NORMAL IF YOUR A VIRGIN KISSING HELPS TOUCHING AND SO ON YOU WILL KNOW WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT YOU ARE TIGHT AND YOUR NOT USED TO HAVE SOMETHING INSIDE OF YOU SO IT WILL BE A TIGHT FIT WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT HE NEEDS TO TAKE IT SLOW AND EASY WITH YOU THE FIRST TIME OR TWO YOU WILL KNOW TAKE IT SLOW GOOD LUCK
Hey! That's normal, don't worry!
It takes time and it will probably be pretty uncomfortable for the first little while, especiallu if he has never done this before as well.
For me personally, it absolutely sucked for the first like 5 times, but it gets better, don't worry. Just be patient, and relax, if you're both feeling really tense, then that probably won't help.
Good Luck!! ;)
its because your a virgen and ur really tight.
no matter wut you do its gonna hurt cause its ur first time. i recently experienced this. try relaxing when your about to have sex. also alot of foreplay will help because it will make u wet and act as a lubricant.
it's gonna be tight the first few times, it's normal. have your bf go real slow, lotsa foreplay, lotsa lube, lotsa kissing and getting into the mood, try not to stress, and relax. its harder if your tense. theres no hurry, enjoy the learning curve together