Girl question..?!
Question: im 13 now
i got my period in june 2006 [wen i was 11], i still havnt told my mum..
i just feel to embarrest but lately i hav felt like maybe i should and then i just chicken out.
my mum and sister and i are pretty close and i no i shudnt be embarest to talk to them about it
they hav been talking with me about it and im jus embarest
but with my friends it feels normal ike i can talk about it with them.
i hav been using pads from my bestfried who buys them for me
im just to emmbarest i dont know what to do..
im even embarest to even be asking this question..
Answers: im 13 now
i got my period in june 2006 [wen i was 11], i still havnt told my mum..
i just feel to embarrest but lately i hav felt like maybe i should and then i just chicken out.
my mum and sister and i are pretty close and i no i shudnt be embarest to talk to them about it
they hav been talking with me about it and im jus embarest
but with my friends it feels normal ike i can talk about it with them.
i hav been using pads from my bestfried who buys them for me
im just to emmbarest i dont know what to do..
im even embarest to even be asking this question..
It's ok, honey! You did the right thing by asking someone for help. I can understand being embarassed about your period-- it's a strange, new thing. You'll get used to it in time. I bet you will feel much better after you are open with your mom about your period. If you really can't make yourself talk to her about it, what if you tried leaving her a note? You could write something like, "Mom, I'm sorry I haven't told you this yet, but I just wanted you to know that I got my period already. I don't know why, but I am very embarassed to talk about it. Thanks for understanding."
Also, maybe you should think about why you are so embarassed to talk to your mom about this. Are you having problems communicating with her about other things too? Does she do things that bother or worry you? If yes, then it would be wise to talk to a school counselor, who can help you deal with your troubles.
Dont be embarrassed! If you tell your mom she will be soooo happy! Trust me, my mom was extremyl excietd when i told her i got my period, and so did my grandma. ^_^
There is nothing to be ashamed of. It's natural.. But honestly she is going to be pretty upset that its been two years. If your really that embarrassed though, simply write a long note explaining your embarrassed and what happened and give it to her and leave. That way you don't have to actually communicate and make it awkward..
Your sister and mum have gone through getting periods. Billions of women have gone through it as well, even your friend. It is practically a normal thing for a women. It's ok to tell your family and they will understand.
tell ur mom, confess, it'll be easier 2 live life if u don't lie
Okay honey, don't worry about it.
I was 11 when I got my period too
and I didn't tell my Mom till I was 13
because I was also embarrassed,
but you got to remember the thing is,
she's your Mom and she went through it
too so she'll understand. When you
get your period next just tell your Mom that
you just got it and she'll be fine with it.
=)
Good luck.
talk to your mom about it. she''ll understand about being embarrassed. it's normal. or, talk to your sister about it.
How could your mom possibly not know? If you were 11, wouldn't she of noticed you buying pads or tampons, or that they were in the garbage. I am sure she probably knows, but hasn't touched the topic with you because maybe she thought you were un-comfortable, just tell her, I am sure she already knows.
1st off..ifyou dont tell her soon she will think that your late and be kinda freaked out
just go to her calmly and ask her when she got her first one
then if its close to yours tell her
Aww don't feel embarrassed.I don't like telling my mom when I have my period,I'm 14.Well 2 months away that is.But anyways,sooner or later she's going to find out :P.Just get up the courage to tell her,she won't say anything mean to you :].
Hope everything goes well.
omg! you've kept it a secret for 2 years? omg wow you have 2 tell your mom, dont be embarassed. seriously just tell your sister first, and then have her tell your mom. your mom wont get mad, because if she knows you were embarassed.
Tell your mother because you are not being a good friend by using her. Do you realize how much money she is spending on you over a corse over two years?
Leave your mom a note, "I got my period, can you get me pads. Dont worry I know what I need to do with them"
geez just tell her its been 2 years now..ur friend is gonna get sick of you making her buy them for you...every girl gets it so its not so bad...ur mom will probally be mad that you haven't told her for so long
she needs to know. if you are close hiding for 2 yrs is along time if she just finds out which I'm surprised she hasnt. She may already know just waiting for you to come to her. email her her if you need to as a conversation starter or text her. she'll understand being a woman also.
you shouldnt be embarrassed
its a natural thing that happens to all girls
ur mom wants u to tell her u got ur period
she might even be a little hurt that u couldnt tell her, especially since you got ur first period two years ago
i think u should tell her
she'll understand ur embarrassed
she might have been also when she first got her period
definitely tell your mom! it's no big deal, all girls go through it. if you feel more comfortable, tell your sister, if she is older than you she can probably help you out and make you feel more comfortable.
your mother would probably feel better knowing that you can tell her things like that, like you can trust her. she can get you pads, too, so you don't have to depend on your friends for things like that. it's no big deal, remember.
dont be embarrased! It is a natural thing that happens to every girl in the world. It is a sign of maturity and starting to become a woman. Your mom will not have a problem with it at all. Then you wont have to have your friends buy your stuff anymore. I was in the 5th grade when I started mine and my mom had no problem at all. Dont worry, but you are going to have to tell her
hey! I know how you feel it's really super embarrassing but i would just say it. I know girl's get their periods at all different age's but sometimes it may screw you up, you know lieing. Your doctor probably would need to know and may think it's wierd that you haven't gotten it yet. Anyway i suggest tell her in the car, a few minutes before you get home so there is a little bit of time to talk about it but once your out of the car you don't have to talk about it anymore! That's what i'd do lol
Its better to tell ur mom. Sometimes, periods might sem like normal periods, but sometimes it can be blood from scratching,infection etc. I was embarrassed to tell my mom too, but it was the only thing that can make you feel "safe". If you're too shy to tll her in person, call her and just say it. Or, leave her a note and put in under her pillow, fridge or just pass it to her. My mom jumped up in happiness when I told her I got it using one of those methods. My mum said, "Now you're matured, I'll give you some leeway." It really will work out and You'll really get leeways cause now you're matured. ?
don't ever be enbarrased about talking to your mother about your period.it's normal for girls your age to have them you need to tell her now.
dont be cuz its normal
im 16 and my step dad buys them for me
its normal =] lol
im somewhat in the same situation except with shaving. wen i first started out i would just use her razor and ive been shaving for a year now and i have a feeling she nos but hasnt said anything about it. wat im planning on doing is, when i have to shop for things to get for camp this summer, which is in a couple months, im just guna be walkin down the isle and throw a razor in the cart. u should just do tha same. just be shoppin in walmart or sumthin and just thrown a box of pads or tampons in the cart. i think she will figure it out from there
I think your mother has a right to know ...
She's raised you from birth and cared for you your whole life, in turn you should give her some respect and let her know what's going on.
There is a reason mother's need to know. Your getting older and growing up, so let her know you have something to tell her but your embarrassed. She will understand, trust me.
okay i know like exactlyy how you feel i'm 15 and i got mine when i was 13 and trust me i wasn't like that close with my mom either.. but i just ended up going up to her and saying 'mom i think i got my period' and its really not as awkard as you think.. just do it trust me it will honestly just take some stress off of you. :)
i hope it works out.
omg!! dont be emabarrased!! ur mom will be so happy to hear that u got it!! i dont know why they do but they do..u should so tell her shes gona be happy!!!
honey, unless you have your own bathroom and take out your own garbage, i'm sure your sister and mum know already. maybe they figured you have a handle on everything and didn't ask any questions. but really, there is absolutely no reason to be embarassed with them, obviously mum has been through all this herself and if you're as close as you say, would probably have loved to 'celebrate' your entrance to womanhood.
on a practical side, you really should tell mom because now that you've gotten your period, you should have an ob/gyn exam for your own health and she can tell you what to expect. so, some day i the near future, when mum's free, call her into your bedroom and sit down with her and talk. actually, if you do that, she's gonna think it's something much more serious and you can both have a laugh when you tell her you just wanted to let her know that you're a woman now. good luck to you.
i am 13. i told my mom as soon as i got it. she'll probably b able 2 help u with it. i got mine the last day of december in 2006 new years eve i just turned 12 nov 17. ur mom won't b mad if anything she'll b happy 4 u. my mom was 4 me. every woman on the face of this planet gets this. it would b weird if ur mom was mad except about the fact that u waited 2 yrs to tell her but u can't change wats already happened. good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Don't be EMBARRASSED to talk about it. All young women go through a phase of feeling awkward about it, though. Kust sit down with mum and tell her it has been going on for a while and you feel really weird about telling her.
She does need to know and their might be things she needs to share with you about family health history. She will not get angry or upset with you. She might have figured it out already and be waiting for you to say something.