What if your boyfriend did this?!
Question: how can i respect my bf now after he lost a wrestling match to a girl. he wrestles on the HS wrestling team and he was matched upagainst the girl and he lost!!. he was winning the whole match until she managed to reach between his legs and give him a hard squeeze, then he collapsed and was pinned. his excuse was she hurt his balls. what am i gonna do with him now?
Answers: how can i respect my bf now after he lost a wrestling match to a girl. he wrestles on the HS wrestling team and he was matched upagainst the girl and he lost!!. he was winning the whole match until she managed to reach between his legs and give him a hard squeeze, then he collapsed and was pinned. his excuse was she hurt his balls. what am i gonna do with him now?
Honey, GROW UP.
Win or lose (unfairly - kicking, tapping, lightly and hardly "groping" / squeezing of the testicles can hurt a guy to the point where he can't move for hours), stand by your...boy...and respect him.
That girl deserves a hardcore titty twister for what she did.
Respect him more. He's a gentleman and not driven by his ego.
omg. if you really liked him you wouldnt be such a jerk! thats as if he idk...lets say he saw your friend doing her makeup better than you, and decided to dump you because you arent always good at putting on make up. thats soooooo unfair. plus she probably DID hit him in the balls, you really need to stay with him if you actually lik him, which i kind of dont think you do.
no offense, but thats a horrible thign to break up over.
I wouldn't care. You should love your boyfriend for who he is as a person, and not how good he is at a sport.
Oh my gosh. You are one of the most superficial people I've ever seen on this site, if not the most superficial. If you're willing to drop him for something as stupid and meaningless as that, then he can do way better than you. To me, you sound like a self-concious person, so you have to have the best of EVERYTHING to feel better about yourself. Just dump him so HE can move on, and so you can wallow alone in self-pity.
hey you would have lost too!
are you that rapped up in reputation?! ...btw, thats called being shallow
but half of america is anyway, so i guess ur just following the trend...which isnt always a good thing
She hurt his BALLS u should repect that those things are precious
If you were a good GF you would massage his sore balls for him and then let him pin you in wrestling match to boost his ego. Let him win if you have too.
Cripes - and people say men are shallow.
I've known female athletes that topped all but the first-place man in national-level competitions (not wrestling, but no matter). No one was embarassed to see them perform at that level. There's nothing wrong with losing to a superior athlete - or to a foul grab.
And maybe he was just freaked out about wrestling a lush, rounded, feminine figure in a non-sexual context, with an audience. It's not something most guys get a lot of practice at.
im sure he fells bad enough over it do not make it worse for him,
His guy friends will make it bad enough for him w/o his gf making it worse