I didnt want to ask this but im so scared.?!
Question: Hi. Im 17 years old and i lost my virginity a month ago. I had unprotected sex , i was 4 days into my period.He didnt orgasm inside me and we didnt go for long for obvious reasons. I recently had sex the night before my period was due same situation , he didnt come inside me but the next morning i took the morning after pill just incase.(this was the day my period was due) I am now 11 days late. And ive just noticed some brown blood. I am very stressed about the whole situation and ive been praying for my period. Do you think this is it? Can the morning after pill make my periods like this. Also my periods are never on time as it is. Their always 2-3 days late. This is the latest is ever been.
Answers: Hi. Im 17 years old and i lost my virginity a month ago. I had unprotected sex , i was 4 days into my period.He didnt orgasm inside me and we didnt go for long for obvious reasons. I recently had sex the night before my period was due same situation , he didnt come inside me but the next morning i took the morning after pill just incase.(this was the day my period was due) I am now 11 days late. And ive just noticed some brown blood. I am very stressed about the whole situation and ive been praying for my period. Do you think this is it? Can the morning after pill make my periods like this. Also my periods are never on time as it is. Their always 2-3 days late. This is the latest is ever been.
Brown blood is usually seen when an overdue period starts. It's very old blood, in an more advanced state of breakdown and the hemoglobin has been pretty much reclaimed. That's what would ordinarily react with air to turn the usual red, and as it's not there in much quantity, the bleeding stays brownish black. The morning after pill is a hormonal overload for the body, and taking it right at the end of the cycle probably did disrupt matters something awful. When your period does finally start, you will probably experience some pretty serious cramping and lots of clots. To put your mind at ease, you are well in the timeframe to use an at home pregnancy test. It will most likely be negative, but of course- there is always the possibility it will be positive as well. A man doesn't have to experience a full ejaculation to leave sperm, the few drops of lubricant he has, usually called "pre-***" contain enough to do the job. The morning after pill will also seriously disrupt your own natural hormonal cycle, how much usually depends on where you were in the cycle to begin with. And you really should not plan to use it very often. Since you have become sexually active, you really do need to make a better provision to protect yourself against both pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases. I strongly suggest you get yourself to a clinic and get an exam and a form of birth control more dependable than your current withdrawl method. You will also need to be tested completely. I don't care how clean the fellow looked, nor what he said he didn't have- he couldn't tell if he did carry most of the STD's, and wouldn't have problems if he did anyway. No matter if you end up taking the pill to prevent pregnancy, you will also need to buy a box of quality condoms- and then use them every single time you have sex. You need to tell your partner that either he wears the condom or there is no sex. Your present method will make you a mother eventually. It can also leave you with other gifts you don't want, namely HIV, HPV, chlamydia, or Herpes. To be safest, get yourself to a clinic and be tested, and get some dependable birth control.
it's late probably cz of the pill. u really need to consider using protection
calm dowwn!! thats your period on its way :o) don't worry!
Relax and give it a few more days. You totally threw your system out of whack using the morning after pill which is very dangerous - don't use it every time you have sex, see your doctor and get on birth control.
If you are worried purchase a pregnancy test kit at your local drugstore.
Let this be a good lesson to you to not have unprotected sex - it's just too risky these days and you surely do not want to end up pregnant at your age!
Good luck.
As you said yourself, your periods are irregular. However, it may be time to buy a pregnancy test as men can leak semen prior to ejaculation.
The fact that you took the Morning after pill is to be applauded, but using a condom would have been far better and much more satisfying for you both.
Go back to the clinic who sold you the morning after pill and get some advice.
If you took the morning after pill the second time you had sex - this will not of made you pregnant.
However, it is possible that you could of got pregnant from the first time you have sex, even if he pulled out, it doesn't mean there isn't *** inside you, as precum contains enough sperm to get you pregnant!! Go to the doctors and get checked out, a home pregnancy test won't be accurate as you are due on your period. A blood test will confirm this.
good luck - hope this'll make you use condoms in future! The worry is SO huge!
Thais a common effect of the morning after pill, if it causes a delay, which it often does, the delay is usually about 10 days. Youre meant to give it 21 days, then if it hasn't started, take a pregnancy test. The times at which you had sex though, make it very unlikely for you to be pregnant. If your periods are regular, and they are, and your period was due the day after you had sex, you could not have had an egg there to fertilize. So just give your period a chance to come on. P.s. You say youre irregular and that youre always 2-3 days late. This means you are regular. Don't follow the 28 day rule, its different for everyone. By the sound of it you have a regular 31day cycle.
USE PROTECTION NEXT TIME!