Losing my virginity..?!
Question: If I'm going to have intercourse for the first time, but my hymen is already broken..will it feel good? or will it hurt?
I'm very nervous and anxious, what should I expect?
Guys and Girls opinions are much appreciated.
Answers: If I'm going to have intercourse for the first time, but my hymen is already broken..will it feel good? or will it hurt?
I'm very nervous and anxious, what should I expect?
Guys and Girls opinions are much appreciated.
It will probably feel uncomfortable... like a lot of pressure... and possibly a pinching/stretching feeling... especially of you are not very "in to it" and excited. You produce your own lubrication when you are excited, and that will help to make it more comfortable for you. It will only really hurt if you are "dry" and there is too much friction...
A good idea would be to use a lubricated condom.
You will likely feel uncomfortable for a while after you have intercourse as well... you might have a feeling of pressure in your lower abdomen for a day or so after.
It probably won't start feeling very pleasurable for you until the 4th or 5th time... at least that was my experience back when I first became sexually active...
oh geez... that made me sound old! lol
if you're hymen is already broken, then it probably won't hurt =]
probably not but it's different for everybody
its probs wont hurt babes(:
but just relax an take things slow as your young .
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why lose it now?
how old u any way?
seriously?
if your hymen is broken, it probably wont hurt, but you better relax those muscles, or he wont be able to get it in you.
It all depends on the person you're with. If you discussed it beforehand that you're a virgin, then he will be gentle. Just tell him to be really gentle, and he'll ease into it. It's going to hurt either way, due to your nervousness. Tensing when he goes in usually will bring on pain. You should just relax, and let him know you're scared. If you're not totally ready, then don't do it. There's always time to do it.
I've never had sex, but I research into this a lot since I am scared too. You will feel pain if he's rushing into it, but if you don't it'll most likely be a tiny pinch or just a small pain. Take your time. If the guy cares about you, he'll be completely gentle the first time.
I hope it goes okay for you. Good luck. :D
If you are that nervous and anxious then perhaps your not ready for intercourse yet .It may still hurt a little but not enough to stop you making love .Just out of curiosity how do you know your hymen i broken.
if your hymen is broke it shoulnt hurt. What can hurt is a penetration when your sexual organ expand. It suposse to feel good, well it feels good. You never know if dont try it,maybe hundreds of persons could tell yes or not, but in life we have to throw ourselves into the sand to seek water, so throw yourself and find out, then one day you could explain to other person that might need help.
might be a little sore but already broke so you'll be ok
Well...seriously that's up to your body to
decide wethere or not it'll feel good. but sence ur hymen is already gone, theres nothing in the way. so it shouldn't hurt.
Pain has nothing to do with you breaking your hymen (despite what people say) which you said happened already. See, the hymen has no nerve endings.
Losing your virginity doesn't have to hurt. Pain comes in when you're not relaxed, when you're afraid and tense, when you're not fully aroused, when your partner has no idea what he's doing (and vice versa), when you're in a rush, when there is little communication between partners, etc.
Whenever there is pain present, you should always stop as it's indicative of a problem - either in technique or an actual physical problem. So, breaking it is not what hurts. Pain comes in when something so large goes into the vagina for the first time. When a woman is fully aroused and relaxed, her vaginal canal loosens and lengthens to allow room for the penis. This happens the first time just as well as on the 60th time. So, you can avoid the pain.
Just relax, and go with the flow. Move into foreplay. Have an orgasm or two through oral, manually etc., then build the arousal back up again. If he can fit 2 fingers into your vagina without any pain or problems - you're ready for intercourse. Ease into it slowly and gently. Focus on the clitoris as the pleasure point during and before.
Lastly, intercourse (contrary to popular belief) is not THE end all and be all of sex. Explore one another, and enjoy one another. Don't make intercourse an expectation, i.e. that it HAS to happen. Just relax, go with the flow, and let it come naturally. If it takes a few weeks or months - that's OK. No rush.
No it wont hurt as long as you take it slow. K
Man the first time is always awkward and it always gets better... I remember the first time I had sex all I could think was "so that was it?" LoL.
But as your body gets looser and more adjusted, and you start to 'figure' things out it will get more and more fun!
Use a condom and get on the pill! Be safe!
Sweetheart it will probably not hurt, how ever use plenty of lubrication such as KY Jelly and make sure he wears a condom. Also try to relax, don't let him enter you until you feel it is the right time and feel totally relaxed about it.
what is a hymen but if ur under 20 don't do it cause u will be and idot and if ur over it's fine