OMG...Girls Please Help! I'm crying right now....?!
Question: ok, on Friday night tihis guy I was seeing came over to watch a movie. we started to kiss a little and he ended up starting to finger me a little bit. Right away he pulled his hand away and asked me if I would mind shaving "down there" cause ke likes it better that way. I really like him so after he left I did it. The next night he was over again and asked me if I did it, I said yes and he asked if he could see!....so I showed him al little real quick and he goes"OMG, now I can see why you kept that thing covered up!...that is the ugliest p---y I have ever seen! and he said that my cl-t looks like a pile of roast beef. So now today at school he must have told all his loser friends cause all day long everyone is calling me meat curtains. ALl day I hear"hey meat curtains", or "Whats up meat curtains"?, "hows it hangin meat curtains?"...what does that even mean? I asked to go to the nurse so I could hide and cry, and I never want to go back! what am i supposed to do????
Answers: ok, on Friday night tihis guy I was seeing came over to watch a movie. we started to kiss a little and he ended up starting to finger me a little bit. Right away he pulled his hand away and asked me if I would mind shaving "down there" cause ke likes it better that way. I really like him so after he left I did it. The next night he was over again and asked me if I did it, I said yes and he asked if he could see!....so I showed him al little real quick and he goes"OMG, now I can see why you kept that thing covered up!...that is the ugliest p---y I have ever seen! and he said that my cl-t looks like a pile of roast beef. So now today at school he must have told all his loser friends cause all day long everyone is calling me meat curtains. ALl day I hear"hey meat curtains", or "Whats up meat curtains"?, "hows it hangin meat curtains?"...what does that even mean? I asked to go to the nurse so I could hide and cry, and I never want to go back! what am i supposed to do????
everybody goes through some kind of embarassing and horrifying time in school...
this happens to be a bad one that you have to go though.
no ones vagina is the same... its like the rest of the human body.. some people are ugly and some girls are pretty. be proud of who you are. even tho he told his friends ( which was rli immaturre) keep your head up high and dont let a guy bring you down. i wouldnt let this ruin your self-esteem either... before giving yourself to a guy in this way again make sure its someone you really like. tell hima bout what happned and if he cant undderstnad wait for a guy who can
youre worth more than that
just to make you feel better i was dating a guy for 2 weeks and we were at his house and we both got naked ... he said he wanted to go down on me and i rli liked him so i said yes.. then he started fingering me and it was the 2nd time that id been fingered and he could only get one finger in... he never said anything at the time and i didnt want to say that he was rli hurting me by just 1 finger! its been 3 years im in grade 12 now and people still bring it up about this guy... i didnt let it effect me and i lived like i was better than them. i can almost get 3 fingers in now but you noe what, like i said everyones different... a guy will love you for who you are
just dont let it wreck you.. <33 hope you feel better
He is not worth it, and you know, you can have him seriously charged for what he's done to you. That's sexual harassment, alone. He's a selfish, stupid, cruel, one-track-minded boy that needs to grow up a little bit. You need to tell an adult because what he's done is severely against the law, and the kids at school can even get in serious trouble for harassing you like that.
tell all his loser mates he has the smallest dick youv ever seen and thats why you wouldnt let him go allthe way with you .and a bit of advice is to trust the boy you let play with you a bit so you know he wont tell any one on you .but dont let this ******** get to you just hold your head up high and remenber all womens minges look ugly and hes proberly gay any way good luck xx
OMG thats horrible. hes an idiot and doesn't know what hes talking about. you are fine. everyone is different. don't think there is anything wrong with you. i don't know what to tell you about the people in school. come up with something stupid to say back. Tell everyone that hes just saying stuff because hes embarrassed that you saw his small penis.even if you didn't it your word against his... GOOD LUCK HUN... I'm sorry guys suck
he is a a**. Find a new guy who loves u no matter what
He is just immature. Lesson learned hopefully by you. I am sorry that happened, you could tell everyone he has a small one, but that would lower yourself to his level
ABSOLUTE WANKER!!!! he is obviously a complete prick and if anyone says anything just say haven't heard anyone else complain or. if he wasn't so **** at tryin 2 find my g-spot i wouldn't have had to shave my pussy! but honestly just ignore people they will soon forget. if that fails just say he has the smallest dick ever!!!! don't let a dick like him get u upset though every womans bits are different and do what is comfortable for u! hope this helps u hunny!
You should have noticed he was a jerk, so why would you give in the his wishes?
Well sweety I am so sorry you had to go through that. You have to have a little more discretion of what give to others. How long have you known him? Could you really trust him? Did you just do it cause you liked him? Never do anything just because you like someone they have to prove themselves to you first. There is nothing wrong with having limitations and having self worth and who the hell does he think he is telling you to shave. He probably has a small wiener himself!! If I were you I would just act like nothing is going on and if people say that to you go up to them and ask them why they are calling you that. Then tell them you have never spent time with him in your life (even if you have evidently) then they will look stupid. I mean its your word against his. They don't know what you've done..if you get sad and cry then you are just verifiying what he says act like it doesn't phase you. You have to take this as a lesson learned also..Stay strong girl!!!
well, GUYS ARE PIGS! AND IDIOTS! and tom. or 2nite either one go up to him and say sometin along the lines of wats ur prob. or u want to start rumors just wait. and if tat guy made you do anything u dont want to do then he is not a real good bf
that was stupid to shave urself there but that guys an idiot
Yes I agree, he is definately a loser! When I was in high school, my diary got into the hands of some boys that were younger than me and they would make comments to me bout the things I had written, at lunch and in the halls when they saw me. One thing that they didnt realize was 90% of what was in it was lies ( to trap my mom because she was reading it). It bothered me so I went to the social worker at my school that I had been seeing and told her. By the end of the day I had my diary back and nothing more was said. She threatened them with harrassment. One thing to remember, try to not let it get to ya, it's his word against yours on what happend. If you show them it gets to ya, they will know something did in fact happen and they will continue. But I would definately bring this to the attention of the social worker or counselor at school. They need to know when someonen is being harrassed, these boys can get into serious trouble. It has been 20 yrs since I was in school and if they were gonna do that then, they can certainly do it now.
Good luck to ya!
i see that everyone is saying how bad that boy is and blah, but sweetie, honestly, half of the fault is yours.
you should have not showed him anything. next time never be that promiscuous. never let any boy take advantage of you.haverespect for yourself, and your body.
dont let anyone bring you down. dont pay attention to people who make fun of you now just ignore those dumb f.ucks excuse me
your stupid what did you expect hi not t tell anyone im sorry but that was the most stupid thing i have ever herd