Is It Sexual Abuse?!


Question: Ok so me and my boyfriend have bene having sex for about 3 months now. I love him and he loves me. We both got tested and are STD free.

But when we have sex he gets rough. Sometimes he throws me against the wall and shoves it inside me, holds me by my sides and starts bringing me up and down really fast, it hurts because his penis is soo big. And then when we do doggy style he likes to pull my hair. And he bites me sometimes, and when we do missionairy sometimes he props myn legs on his shoulders and starts dragging me deeper into him.
I scream and orgasm. the pleasure overrides the pain but i wanna know if rough sex is abuse?


Answers: Ok so me and my boyfriend have bene having sex for about 3 months now. I love him and he loves me. We both got tested and are STD free.

But when we have sex he gets rough. Sometimes he throws me against the wall and shoves it inside me, holds me by my sides and starts bringing me up and down really fast, it hurts because his penis is soo big. And then when we do doggy style he likes to pull my hair. And he bites me sometimes, and when we do missionairy sometimes he props myn legs on his shoulders and starts dragging me deeper into him.
I scream and orgasm. the pleasure overrides the pain but i wanna know if rough sex is abuse?

If you aren't telling him to stop, or telling him that he is hurting you and you want him to be gentler, then it is not sexual abuse. If you have told him that you don't like how rough he is, and yet he persists - there is a possibility. However, I would only say that it is definitely sexual abuse if you make an attempt to stop it and it persists. If you are screaming and having orgasms, he likely thinks you are enjoying it as well - as many girls do.

It's the same concept as a woman that fakes an orgasm and then complains to her friends that her boyfriend can't get her off. Don't fake it if it's bad. Don't take it if you don't like it.

If you don't want it to persist, tell him not to be so aggressive. He's likely used to girls that like it that way, and based on your responses (screaming, orgasms, etc.) he's probably assuming you like it that way too.

Hope this has helped!

no its a turn on 4 me it gets me off..... i like bondage and bdsm tho im a pain lover.... u might be 2.... it hurts but i love it

You need to tell him that you don't like it.
If he doesn't know it's hurting you and you don't like it then I don't think it's abuse.

Sounds good to me...but if it isn't what you like, you have to tell him! It is not sexual abuse unless you tell him you don't like it, and he keeps doing it.

i love it rough :D

its not sexual abuse...if it hurts too much though tell him.





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