Did i make the right decision?!? i cant stop crying. help??!
Question: i broke up with my boyfriend of 7 months. it was a weird relationship. for the first few months things were great. then after that we fought ALL the time. although the good times we had were great, it almost seemed like our relationship had been revolved around sex. because we were usually fighting, or things were awkward with us unless we were having sex. he was extremely jealous. got mad very easily. and has even slapped me and threw me to the ground. but the thing is, i was VERY in love with him. and still am..for some reason im finding it very hard to let go of him. he was my first love. i thought he would get better. but i couldnt see it happening. so i finally broke up with him. but he was trying to make me feel guilty. saying im losing a guy who actually loved me for me. and that he really did care about me. and he was gonna change for me. He always does that! how do i cope with a broken heart? was my decision right??
Answers: i broke up with my boyfriend of 7 months. it was a weird relationship. for the first few months things were great. then after that we fought ALL the time. although the good times we had were great, it almost seemed like our relationship had been revolved around sex. because we were usually fighting, or things were awkward with us unless we were having sex. he was extremely jealous. got mad very easily. and has even slapped me and threw me to the ground. but the thing is, i was VERY in love with him. and still am..for some reason im finding it very hard to let go of him. he was my first love. i thought he would get better. but i couldnt see it happening. so i finally broke up with him. but he was trying to make me feel guilty. saying im losing a guy who actually loved me for me. and that he really did care about me. and he was gonna change for me. He always does that! how do i cope with a broken heart? was my decision right??
Your decision was 100% correct! =] .. whoo hoo atleast somebody got out a abuse relationship with the quickness lol. I have never been in a abusive relaltionship before and i refuse to put myself through that. But yeah for your heartache all you need is time sweetie. I was in a relationship for 4 years and that was about 4 1/2 years ago and i still suffer a heart ache. So i most def. know what your going through. When i see him i get upset and i feel like i want to throw up and stuff lol. But like i said it just takes time. All you can do it wait.... =/ Good luck Hunny
yes, absolutely 100% your decision was the correct one. i spent years in an abusive marriage. they always promise to change but never do. if he really loved you, he never would have hit you. trust me, you deserve better.
HE BEATS U LADY CALL THE COPS
Your situation sounds similair to mine. I am still (and probably always will be) in love with my ex. Maybe not in love, but he will always be a piece of me. I think about him occasionally, but I've come to realize that everyday it gets easier and easier to think about him. Time is the only thing that can heal a broken heart.
obviously you made the right decision.. he clearly doesn't love you for you when he is being jealous and beating you.
You should hit him back, girlfriend,
"and has even slapped me and threw me to the ground."
yes you made the right choice, in my opinion anyway. its common to not be able to let go of a first love it took me six years of off and on-ness to let mine go. given he never put his hands on me....well besides having sex....but ater six years i had to let it go...trust me it gets easier...slowly and sometimes painfully...but if i can let go of six years you can let go of seven months. there will be someone else who really loves you for you...that wont put their hands on you!!!
You've made the right decision...he sounds unstable, and you're lucky to be rid of him...don't worry, another will come along. Good luck!
you made the right decision! if he really loved you he wouldn't have slapped you or threw you to the ground! you should never let that happen to yourself and then think it will be okay. and it doesn't really sound like he loved you for you. you said the relationship was revolved around sex and thats probably what he wanted and he didn't want any other type of relationship so you fought all the time. you can find someone so much better.
I have sympathy for you but still what he did was VERY wrong. Personally I'd never treat any girl like that and feel sorry for any guy i caught treating one like that. The choice you made was the best possible but one thing, if u ever see him make his life a living hell and be sure to do this if he is with another girl, as people say what comes around goes around. Please take note of this as nothing is sweeter than revenge victory.
no relationship should be based on sex.
if you cant get along without that you have a problem.
and he hit you...that was ur sign to leave him.
and dont give him a second chance,.cuz if he apologized and said hed never do it again..he will.
a guy that hits will always hit.that means he cant control his anger when hes mad.
its gunna be hard because hes your first love.
but seriously stop crying over it.
and try to find another guy to take your mind off him.
youll soon learn you s hould be treated better.
and you deserve better!
yess ma'am
You made the absolute right decision. And the pain would go away. But what if I told you there was a perfect guy out there who would never break your heart. just e-mail me and I promise to tell you who this guy is.