Plz help is there something wronge with me?!
Question: ok so first thing is first.
I am a 12 year old girl, i havnt had my period yet, i need a bra (dont have one yet), and i cant ask my mom about anything because i am to embarressed i also cant ask any friends or sibling basicly i cant ASK ANYONE!
ok so here is my problem I HAVE HAD THIS FOR AS LONG AS I CAN REMEMBER so i dont see how this could be caused by horomones
what it is is this,
i am looking down at my crotch and as u start to head in past the outer lips i see TONS of little white bumps ALL OVER!
and if i squeez them really hard white stiff comes out but it hurts to do that because as i am squeezzing the bump i am also squeezing the skin around it!
the best i can describe of wat they look like whiteheads but on my crotch
plz help is this irregular do i need to see a doc
sometimes it feels kind wet down there and i start thinking i got my period but really it is just this stuff where i i slide my finger across this white pastey stuff is there
r the bumps wer the pastey comes from?
Answers: ok so first thing is first.
I am a 12 year old girl, i havnt had my period yet, i need a bra (dont have one yet), and i cant ask my mom about anything because i am to embarressed i also cant ask any friends or sibling basicly i cant ASK ANYONE!
ok so here is my problem I HAVE HAD THIS FOR AS LONG AS I CAN REMEMBER so i dont see how this could be caused by horomones
what it is is this,
i am looking down at my crotch and as u start to head in past the outer lips i see TONS of little white bumps ALL OVER!
and if i squeez them really hard white stiff comes out but it hurts to do that because as i am squeezzing the bump i am also squeezing the skin around it!
the best i can describe of wat they look like whiteheads but on my crotch
plz help is this irregular do i need to see a doc
sometimes it feels kind wet down there and i start thinking i got my period but really it is just this stuff where i i slide my finger across this white pastey stuff is there
r the bumps wer the pastey comes from?
Please don't b embarrassed to be going thru puberty, your mom went thru it too. All moms await the day their dtrs come to them 4 this type of advice. We are often just as embarrassed, as u are, but happy when u choose to ask us vs asking friends, or strangers. It is wonderful to become a woman, not shameful.However, being unable to see the problem & just going on description, I feel u need to see a gynecologist.Does the bumps u talking about itch, are they red, ? just some pertinent questions. U could be suffering from a yeast infection or infection of hair follicles, this is a guess since I can't see u. Discharge from the vaginal opening is common, & depending on color can b normal or not.But what u describe is inside or on the labia. yeast is very common esp. if u take baths sitting in tub with bubble bath, wear non-white, non cotton panties, or very tight pants, etc causing heat, & irritation , & sweat,take antibiotics often, have low immunity, cleaning genital area from back to front instead of the proper front 2 back.Hopefully at 12 u are not sexually active. However, take a squirt bottle & fill it with warm water, or a douche solution of vinegar & water that u can buy. Use this as a cleasning agent to squirt over the area after using the toilet. Dab with soft tissue from front 2 back only, wear white cotton ,adequate fitting panties, avoid tight nylon or other types. Don't wear pants or undies too tight, Eat live cultured yogurt. Most of all do not squeeze these lesions, this can lead to further irritation, spread of infection if present. Make sure to eat balanced diet. Please talk 2 mom.Tell her u need to see gyn doc asap. These problems are easily fixed.Get a bra, just becuz It will make u look neater.You will need to ask mom 4 this as well. I don't know why u feel u cant tell mom, but I really hope, that is just your perception, & not a reality.Girls can often be at odds with their moms, but I am sure your mom love & wants to help u.
I am sorry, why don;t u go to school? Are u home schooled? Now I feel worried 4 u. Please if u need help u can e-mail me . go to my home page 4 the info. If I know a little more abut u, i can set u up with resourses in your area. It may b surprising to u but there is help out there even 4 a 12 yr old.You should have somwone to teach u, & provide sound advice that is nearby.
you shouldnt be embarrased to talk to your mom if anything she will be pleased that you can open up to her and tell her things. when i first started my period i didnt really want to tell my mom but i did and now i can tell her anything. you should just tell her and maybe get it looked at by a doctor x
This is a simple irritation, you sweat a lot down there, what's what causes these bumps! Don't panic !
Honey you gonna have to talk to your mother no matter what. Don't be like I was. I started my period I was 14 and I didn't tell my mom for a whole month <---you don't want to know how I took care of my period sometimes i stole pads from her. Later on I gave up and asked her and she responded so nicely and gave me pads. And needing a bra!! why is that such an embarrassing question that's like the easiest thing to ask. And the white stuff it's most likely Discharge it's normal...it's prolly happened to every woman. Discharge comes out because it helps clean your vagina and make it healthy. And the bumps I really don't know about that....if they keep continuing you should see a doctor.
uhhh...
im sorrryy but thats gross...
go get it checked out by a doctor.
do you shower regularly??
Well Im Not Too Sure About The White Bumps But You Should See Someone You Trust Or Maybe A School Nurse?
Dont Be Embarressed To Talk To Your Mom She Has Been Through Puberty And Knows How You Feel. The White Pastey Stuff Is Probably Discharge And That Is A Sign Your Period Is On Its Way.
Get Them Bumps Checked Out Tho
Hope I Helped :)
tell your mom this kind of stuff and you'll feel a lot better because
A) your mom will take care of you
B)you wont have this stuff hanging over your shoulder.
im 12 too and i know exactly how you feel, i didnt know how to ask my mom for a bra, so i asked my older sister to ask for me. plusss++ you'll be so much closer to your mom once you tell her this stuff, you will feel like you can tell her anything.
(and get a bra for the sake of people with eyes ((no offence)))
you should REALLY REALLY see a doctor about that! cause you never know what it might be. and if you talk to your mom about it, it may spark something and you will start being able to talk to her about ANYTHING! i mean, i know how it feels to not be able to talk to people about that kind of stuff. im almost 14 and before i got my period, i felt like, when i did i wouldnt be able to tell ANYONE! but i had to when i did cause i needed supplies. and now its easy to talk to my mom about that kind of stuff. just go to your mom and say "i think i have a problem, i dont wanna explain it but i think i need to see a gynocologist. after you make the appointment, the doctor will tell you whats wrong." and hopefully she'll understand. and if she doesnt, then you say "mom, im not gonna tell you whats wrong, so if you want me to be healthy and safe, just take me to the doctor. please understand!"
hope this helped!
MY ADVICE TO YOU IS TALK TO YOUR MOM, AND IF YOU ARE ASHAMED TALK TO YOUR MOM,YOUR SCHOOL NURSE SHOULD HAVE SOME ADVICE BUT IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU'RE ABOUT TO START YOUR CYCLE SOON. THE BUMPS ARE PIMPLES. YOU CAN GET THEM IN OTHER PLACES BESIDES YOUR FACE. BUT PLEASE TALK TO YOUR MOM ABOUT THIS JUST TO GET SOME PEACE OF MIND.
Embarrased yet?
How could you possibly be embarrased to talk to your mother or doctor about this?
The bumps are only a simple irritation caused by sweat. You will soon get your period and ask your mom to take you shopping for some bras!
1. You should tell your mom that you need a bra..you should have one by now. She probably feels just as awkward as you..but, just go for it. Your mom will not laugh or make fun of you. There is NOTHING she can do but say 'no'. I do not think she'll say that. = )
2. I am very not aware if those are normal or not. I've never had them..sorry, idk.
3. The pasty stuff is most likely discharge, this means you might get your period soon..maybe a few weeks..few years? I'm not sure when, but discharge it completely normal, before and after you get your period. I have it allll the time.
Best of luck!! = ))
Pearly Penile Papules
It is not an STD. It is harmless. With treatment with the doctor it should go away.
And the wet stuff, is maybe your hormones and stuff, as you grow and you hit puberty those are
1- discharge, it's normal
2- excitement (sexually)
Talk to your mother.
She knows what she's doing.