Help..... Masturbation?!
Question: ok so i tell my best friend EVERYTHING! and she telss me everything i dont have one seceret that i havent her except that i masturbate and i wanna tell her because she has told every single things she does and i dont tell anyone and she doesnt tell anyone anything i say so can u help me on ways i can tell her
Answers: ok so i tell my best friend EVERYTHING! and she telss me everything i dont have one seceret that i havent her except that i masturbate and i wanna tell her because she has told every single things she does and i dont tell anyone and she doesnt tell anyone anything i say so can u help me on ways i can tell her
Hi, Jocelyn!
It sounds like you have a very nice friend there! It doesn't sound like you would be too shy to talk about masturbation with her! Maybe just sometime when your conversation gets to things like sex... just casually mention that you have experimented with masturbation. Then relax- you've opened the subject- then see what she says, and go from there! I don't think you'd be surprised if your friend said, "Me too!" :-) Good luck to you!
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Just tell her if you want to tell her. There is nothing wrong with keeping some things private.
if you trust her, then its alright to tell her how exactly you masterbate or do your fingering..
Masturbation is a very personal topic. I understand that you want to share everything with her but to be honest...she might not want to hear about it. Don't you think it will be kind of awkward? Maybe not. Me and my friends don't talk about masturbating and I've known them since I was a kid. And besides, I'm sure she already knows you masturbate, everyone does!
When you masterbate it is a personel choice to tell people. i personaly would never tell my friends because they are tottaly against it!!! it is your choice!! good luck on your decision
Well, the best is probably to wait until you two are alone and talking about sex and such. Then just let it come up in conversation. If you two are as close as I was with my best friend, it won't be hard. We'd spend so much time together, try on clothes and such. We ended up talking about it one day as we were trying on swimsuits. I just mentioned that the suit rubbed a bit... pretty soon we were talking about it.
So, try not to worry, just let the conversation happen.
Some things we just need to keep to our selfs, and that may be one of them. You never know how anyone may react to that info. She may look at you like "Don't touch me!" or she may tell you she also does that!
You never know how some one will react!
You don't have to feel obligated to tell her everything you do. That's a personal topic and I can understand you not wanting to share it. Masturbation isn't harmful, so nothing bad is going to happen if you don't tell someone about it. Be private if you feel like being private.
Just say to her...
You know how I tell you everything well there's something else I want to tell you too.
Then just go from there.
Or maybe you could say...
I wanted to tell you another secret of mine that no-one else knows about. It's kind of embarrassing but I can trust you.
Or something like that.
Good luck!!
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