I am never aroused Can You Help?!
Question: I can not ever figure out how to become arroused, My husband asks me what he can do to get my female anatomy working but I dont even know. I never want sex and he almost 100% of the time does, so what canI do I have tried tons of different bodily stimulation and nothing seems to work!
Please help me & my husband will thank you!!!
Answers: I can not ever figure out how to become arroused, My husband asks me what he can do to get my female anatomy working but I dont even know. I never want sex and he almost 100% of the time does, so what canI do I have tried tons of different bodily stimulation and nothing seems to work!
Please help me & my husband will thank you!!!
How long have you been with your husband? This is normal in a relationship after being together a few years. I have found that I am really turned on if my man plays hard to get and tells me he gives up on trying to be with me that way, or if he wont let me kiss him. Right now we have a motivational thing going on where there's no sex or kissing (not even pecks) until I lose the weight that I want to lose, which is 20 pounds. I've been saying it for years, but now that I have the motivation, its actually helping. Plus tonight it really turned me on that he wouldn't let me kiss him so we ended up fooling around and doing it anyway. Tell your husband to play hard to get. Maybe it will work for you.
im not being funny when i say this, but have you ever tried going to a sex therapist. im sure that would help somewhat. they could probably figure out what the problem is. some women get more easily aroused than others so im pretty sure you're not alone! good luck!
Go see your doc that gave you the birth control pills and see what they say. You could have a hormone imbalance.
Peace
Have you told your ob/gyn? You could have a hormonal imbalance or nerve damage.
Tell your husband that I highly recommend, "Sex Begins in the Kitchen" by Dr. Kevin Leman.
Don't stress about it. Just check out the physical things to rule them out and then consider relaxation and relational issues. Try Kegel exercises, too. The stronger you are, the easier it is.