Girls opinions please?!
Question: so lets say im attracted to a girl who iv only spoke to maybe 3 times, and its only been a few words. Lets say i managed to ger her aim adress but im not sure whether or not to add her because
A: she might think im some sort of stalker for managing to get her adress
b: she might think im just plain stupid for contacting her
so can some women please tell me what they would think if they were contacted through this. Im only even thinking about it because everytime i try to go up and speak in real life i suddenly take a panic attack and back down. IM only posting this in the health section because no women even checks the others...seriously.
Answers: so lets say im attracted to a girl who iv only spoke to maybe 3 times, and its only been a few words. Lets say i managed to ger her aim adress but im not sure whether or not to add her because
A: she might think im some sort of stalker for managing to get her adress
b: she might think im just plain stupid for contacting her
so can some women please tell me what they would think if they were contacted through this. Im only even thinking about it because everytime i try to go up and speak in real life i suddenly take a panic attack and back down. IM only posting this in the health section because no women even checks the others...seriously.
aww you get nervous... It would be better if you try to talk to her first. But if you cant then try the aim thing. I mean the worst thing that could happen is for her to go bananas on you and im sure she wont. If i was her it wouldnt bother me and i wouldnt think you would be a stalker since i would already know who you are instead of some stranger AIMing me all of a sudden. Just go for it. Good Luck
What age group are we talking about? I think that will play a factor in the reaction you might get from the female.
I think you should add her. Personally I like a little surprise and mystery, and I would think it was neat.
Think of it this way you can't get anymore not her boyfriend then you are right now, so what do you have to loose. Go for it.
If you like her just im her and say you got her aim through a friend and you would like to talk to her she might think your a wacko or be impressed that you liked her enough to get her aim only way to know is to try.
Add her and you can always, "accidentally" IM her and ask who is this? even though you know.
It will make for a good conversation.