Casual sex and body issue?!


Question: First off I'm an uncircumcised guy and I've heard many girls negatively react or talk about an uncircumcised penis in a negative sense (never directly at me as they didn't know I was uncircumcised). My question was if you came across an uncircumcised guy when you guys were in the moment would you turn him down or would you fool around with him and just never do it again. I like this girl and we were talking about circumcision one day as a group of which she said uncut men are gross. She then asked me if I was circumcised I told her I was and then she said that I'd better be.

I just turned 18 and I don't have to much experience but I'm pretty sure she wants to sleep with me and I want to sleep with her I just don't know if I should because I'm uncircumcised. While she is a really cool girl I can totally see her flipping out, getting up and walking out and then telling all her friends about my circumcision status. Should I advance the relationship or not? Please be brutally honest


Answers: First off I'm an uncircumcised guy and I've heard many girls negatively react or talk about an uncircumcised penis in a negative sense (never directly at me as they didn't know I was uncircumcised). My question was if you came across an uncircumcised guy when you guys were in the moment would you turn him down or would you fool around with him and just never do it again. I like this girl and we were talking about circumcision one day as a group of which she said uncut men are gross. She then asked me if I was circumcised I told her I was and then she said that I'd better be.

I just turned 18 and I don't have to much experience but I'm pretty sure she wants to sleep with me and I want to sleep with her I just don't know if I should because I'm uncircumcised. While she is a really cool girl I can totally see her flipping out, getting up and walking out and then telling all her friends about my circumcision status. Should I advance the relationship or not? Please be brutally honest

Personally, I have never been with a guy who wasn't circumcised, and don't really know what an uncircumcised penis looks like. That said, I don't think I'd care very much as long as he looked clean. I've had many friends through the years who have dated and/or married men who weren't circumcised. Most of them were surprised by it at first, but then really enjoyed the uniqueness. I don't really think it's an issue for women with any maturity.

Nevertheless, you're 18. I'm not sure if you're in college or high school. Once you go to college I think you'll find that women are much more mature, worldly, and more accepting of those who are a little bit different. In high school, however, girls can be cruel and closed off from anything that is different (especially if you live in a small town far away from any major, cultural city) and I don't think I would recommend advancing anything with a girl who said that not being circumcised is gross. It sounds like she's pretty narrow minded.

i was with a guy who was uncircumsized and you cant even tell when you have an erection.........so just make sure your turned on if she touches you or goes down on you she wont even know the difference!!!! and if she cant accept you for who you are and what you have then you shouldnt be messing around with her in the first place!

I have personal exsperiance with both cut and uncut. I felt the sex was better with the uncircumsized man. Many of my freinds were curious and asked a lot of questions. I would be honest upfront.

What is circumcised or uncircumsized ?
Well wahtever it may be if she likes you, she will accept you the way u are

Well all I can say is if you worry about her reaction and her telling all her friends then I would not have sex w/ her. Maybe you could talk to her if you think she will be kind and understanding. Disguss the idea of having sex w/ her and possibly tell her...

Personally, I wouldn't care if my lover had a circumcised penis or not. I would love him for his personality and not his looks. So if your more concerned about a girl who cares more about looks than personality. I wouldn't advance the relationship, unless your willing to change your physical look for a girl who only seems to care about physical looks.

Kind Lady

Wow... how mean! I am almost 33. I have been with guys that are uncircumcised and it didn't bother me one bit. I dont see how there is anything gross about it. Just keep yourself clean, which is the most difficult part of being uncircumcised. I think that girls (young girls) just are very uneducated about the situation.

However, if you could see this girl doing what you say you could see her doing, then I do not think you should advance the relationship. I do not think you should have lied though, and I think you should have just said something like "that is sort of a personal question, isn't it?" Next time, if a girl says something like that, say "Explain to me exactly how your vagina looks and then I will tell you about mine." Lol, I doubt they would drop the issue immediately. :)

Also - to the person who said you cant even tell if they have an erection? WHAT? That is completely untrue. The only difference is there is extra skin at the end of the penis.

honestly, i don't mind at all either way.

i don't know of any girl just getting up and walking away or refusing just because of circumsision issues. perhaps body hair or something else.

i just think you shouldn't have lied to her, and if it comes up, maybe mention to her that you aren't?


haha just wanted to comment on the girl who said that you cant tell when an uncircumsized man has an erection:

WHAT?!

Brutally honest??? Here goes:

If circumcision or the lack thereof is the thing that propels anyone into having sexual intercourse with you, that person is far too immature to have a physical relationship with anyone.

Then there is your statement, "I want to sleep with her".
Why?? Are you a primative animal or a human being who wants a friend, and a relationship that could grow into love?

"Casual sex" is an insult to the girl and to yourself.

The primary sign of maturity in a young man is that he realizes his brain is in his head, not between his legs.

Have you heard of pregnancy and STD's?

Grow up before you indulge in behavior that is best saved until maturity.

I say shock and awe her with the big worm baby





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