I think i was raped?!
Question: about a month ago i was at my best friends sweet 16 we were drinking i no we shouldnt have been it was at her cousins house and a bunch of her cousins girl &guy friends were there i have never even thrown up from drinking but on this night i blacked out they said i was throwing up most of the night i dont rember anything i no that all the older guys were like 21,22 and when i woke up i was on the bathroom floor with my pants on but my underwear was ripped i didnt feel like i was drunk or anythink like that and i dont think that i drank that much that night befor this is was a virgin ever sence ive felt differnt down there and i dont no what happened i never said anything to my friend that night or at all most of the night i hung out with her boyfriend who also came with us and everyone eles was smoking weed (me and him werent not for us never has been) the last thing i rember was trying to open a beer when everyone came back into the living room i think i asked someone to open my beer
Answers: about a month ago i was at my best friends sweet 16 we were drinking i no we shouldnt have been it was at her cousins house and a bunch of her cousins girl &guy friends were there i have never even thrown up from drinking but on this night i blacked out they said i was throwing up most of the night i dont rember anything i no that all the older guys were like 21,22 and when i woke up i was on the bathroom floor with my pants on but my underwear was ripped i didnt feel like i was drunk or anythink like that and i dont think that i drank that much that night befor this is was a virgin ever sence ive felt differnt down there and i dont no what happened i never said anything to my friend that night or at all most of the night i hung out with her boyfriend who also came with us and everyone eles was smoking weed (me and him werent not for us never has been) the last thing i rember was trying to open a beer when everyone came back into the living room i think i asked someone to open my beer
I'm so sorry you went through this. And I'm sorry people are compounding the problem by being thoughtless. I'm sure you don't need us to tell you to keep your drink to yourself at all times at parties--it sounds as though someone slipped something in it.
I agree with everyone who said you should go to an ob/gyn, get a pregnancy test and a test for STDs, and ask whether your hymen is broken. (It could have broken in some other way, but it would be useful information.)
If you type "rape crisis centers" into google, you will get a bunch of listings. You can try "rape crisis centers (name of your state or province)" as well. Do talk with someone--it will really help.
I think you'd know if you've been penetrated as your vaginal opening would likely be torn. But you need to get yourself checked out by a doctor just for good measure. If you were raped you were probably sexually assaulted in some way (ie; molested). Sounds like you were drugged
I hope you don't drink anymore. Oh and by the way...girl above me...what a horrible thing to say.
EDIT: YES you can be raped while you're unconscious. It happens everyday..What do you think Date Rape is?
u can never know u do crazy things when your drunk
I would recomend that you go see an OB/GYN and find out if you are still a virgin or not and take it from there...
Maybe where there any stains on your underwear? and did it feel wet inside you?
A word of advice DONT DRIN MORE THEN 2 drinks at parties and WATCH YOUR DRINK, so it doesn't get spiked. AND MAKE YOR OWN DRINKS
Well if you were a virgin and haven't like "popped" it by doing something odd like sticking a cucumber up there you can go to the doctor to check if your ____ has been riped. ( i forget the name of the piece of skin)
you may have been raped...there is no way to tell by now. If you would have went to see a doctor right after you throught you were raped he/she would have been able to test for DNA evidence, but now that said evidence has long since disappeared so now you are left to only wonder...now will you stop drinking??...you do know the legal drinking age is 21 right...and it's that way for a reason, because you make think you are grown up and know everything, but you really don't. you, at 16 are not mature enough to handle the decision and responsibilites that come with drinking.
It sounds like you were. Go to the hospital before taking a shower and get checked. It is illegal for someone to have sex with you while asleep (unconscious). They could have added a drug to it like Rohipnol the rape drug. Or they may have not.
Here is my advice. Never drink alcohol again until you are age 80. If you do drink it again, you will suffer the consequences. Sorry to say that I have no sympathy for you since you asked for trouble by using a drug (alcohol).
See site below with advice for teen girls.
Well I do not know what to tell you but I think that you should go to your doctor and maybe have some test done to see if you Hyman is still indicated or not the fact is you should not have been drinking but things happen you might want to tell you friend about this because you never know. hope I help good luck
people can be rude on here!!! I believe you... sad part is these things happen a lot...more now days because of the underage drinking. When I drink ( i am 20 ) I make sure I have someone there I trust & know very well... that isnt drinking. My suggestion is go to the doctor. Tell him the situation & see what he says... definietly go soon incase you contracted an STD or something. I hope things go ok for you.... good luck!!
someone slipped you a drug honey. get yourself checked out. i am so sorry... :(
There are plenty of drugs like rohypnol (sp?) that can make you lose your memory. It is possible to be raped & not know. I worked at a rape crisis center, so those of you who answered & don't think it is possible think again. I strongly suggested you go to your obgyn. Get tested for pregnacy & STD's now!
If your are close to your parents let them know. If not tell someone who can support you and be with you when you go in in case it turns out you are pregnant.
theres no harm in getting yourself checked out just to be sure by a doctor :P i say just go get it checked out incase - atleast your not pregnant?
xoxoxo good luck all the best xoxoxoxo
stop trying to grow up too fast and live your life...do you even listen to your parents??...i know i did stuff when i was younger and i regret that i didnt listen to the most important stuff my mother was telling me...you should have not dranked because first you are underaged..go get yourself checked out as soon as the place opens..im sorry this has happened to you but next time i really hope you get smart about this and say no...next time if this is a next time you might not be as lucky and thats just being real...
take more care of yourself and pay attention to your life..
I really dont know whether you were raped or not, umm if i were you i would get that check. Since im a guy that's pritty sick sleeping with a chick that's passed out, it just shows that he was desprite and thats the only way he could get it, i would ask who did and kill him lol
I really think you need to go with your gut instinct here. If you feel like somethings wrong, then you are probably right. I doubt that you were just drunk, its very possible that whoever did this has drugged you. I think what you should do is make an appointment with your gp, they can check you over and also suggest places you can go for someone to talk to. The people in here saying mean stuff are just ignorant and don't understand what it's like to wonder if you have been raped. They are lucky it has never happened to them.
You need to see a OBGY and have a pap and check to see if your pregnant or have anything like a STD. If they drugged you or put something in your drink, then it would be likely some of the older guys had their kicks with you while you were passed out. It would be hard to prove this now since it has been a month ago. You should have reported it sooner. You had better wake up and know who you are hanging out with, and stop drinking, coz who needs friends like that. Your lucky your still alive. Quit hanging around with loosers.
Wow your dumb! Stop drinking before your dead. Someone molested you. How does that feel? I wonder what will happen next time you drink?
i guess girl that you should get yourself down to the doctor and let them know what has happened, because if you have had sex, knowingly or not, you could be pregnant or you could also have picked up some infection, you need to be sure, get down to a doctor or family planning clinic, for some help and confidential advice. ..pronto!
Stop Drinking!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
you are such a loser...you have horrible spelling too
I wish you never drank but you are still a virgin thats how I see it.
no1 can rape u while u are unconscious..its painful and will hurt u..someone did mess around wth ur underwear...maybe u urself tore it while trying to pee since u were too drunk to handle
Hi,
No you had not been raped.
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