I was wondering something about sex... Can anyone help me??!


Question: I was fingering my girlfriend the other day, and I felt this strange hard piece of muscle inside her vagina. I can move my finger all around it with no problem, and she says that it hurts when I touch it. Also it seems that after every time of me fingering her she says "I think you hurt me." One time she even said "I think you restarted my period." What is this object? What should we do about it?


Answers: I was fingering my girlfriend the other day, and I felt this strange hard piece of muscle inside her vagina. I can move my finger all around it with no problem, and she says that it hurts when I touch it. Also it seems that after every time of me fingering her she says "I think you hurt me." One time she even said "I think you restarted my period." What is this object? What should we do about it?

The first answerer is correct---that is her cervix. You don't "do" anything about it. That's the end of the vagina, the only thing past the cervix is the uterus, and you don't go there during sex or foreplay.

Maybe she is under the impression that if you just get past this "obstacle", whatever you are doing will finally start to feel good. But pain and orgasm are not compatible in most people. Just get out of that area, slow down, and pay attention to ONLY those areas that feel good to her. I'll give you a hint, most of those places ain't up there.

Edit: It will affect sexual intercourse only if you insist on using your penis as a battering ram, in which case it will feel even worse than fingering. Every girl in the world has a cervix in the same place, there is nothing abnormal about your girlfriend.

That's her cervix. For many women, the cervix is sensitive, so it's not a good idea to manipulate it. In fact, as a general rule, if something hurts---stop doing it!

So the best thing to do is to leave her cervix alone and focus on other areas of her vagina and vulva.

I agree with the above-poster with regard to her cervix. You CANNOT re-start her period. The poking around probably made her bleed. If she is not gaining any pleasure from you fingering her then don't do it anymore.

She should go to a GYN. If she is embarrassed to tell the doc how she (you) found this "object" then she should just go for a routine exam. The routine exam will include an internal exam, and if something is wrong, the doctor will find it. Also, she should mention the "restarting of her period" She can tell the doc that she has spotting between periods. This sometimes happens if she has only had her period a couple years, but she should most definately get it checked out. Better to be safe than sorry. If something is wrong, the sooner it's caught the easier the treatment.

You should be a lot more gentle and not focus on going so deep. Also, make sure your nails are cut and filed smooth with all hangnails removed. Tissue in the vaginal area is delicate. Any sharp edges or roughness on your fingers or nails can cause small tears that lead to bleeding and make her more vulnerable to infection. Any time a girl says you have hurt her, you need to change your technique.

It's her cervix but you can't restart a period like a car





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