When i was at a party .. .?!

Question: almose a month ago i think i was drugged and raped at a party me and my best friend were at a party with my best friend the party was with her older cousin and all of her friends most of them were guys they were all like 21/22 or older i just recently turned 16 im 85% sure that one of them drugged me i only had about 2 drinks there is no way that i was drunk i never even thrown up let alone blacked out like this at all before this hapened i was/am a virgin when i came to i was on the bathroom floor and i think i has been throwing up my underwear was ripped on the one part and was only on around my waist when i woke up i didnt feel like i was drunk or hungover or anything like that i felt different down there and some pain at first but most i felt unusual and dirty i dont remeber anything as hard as i try i just cant remeber anything the last thing i remeber was asking someone to open my beer.. im really serious about this and scared plese save it about the drinking cause i understand..

Answers: almose a month ago i think i was drugged and raped at a party me and my best friend were at a party with my best friend the party was with her older cousin and all of her friends most of them were guys they were all like 21/22 or older i just recently turned 16 im 85% sure that one of them drugged me i only had about 2 drinks there is no way that i was drunk i never even thrown up let alone blacked out like this at all before this hapened i was/am a virgin when i came to i was on the bathroom floor and i think i has been throwing up my underwear was ripped on the one part and was only on around my waist when i woke up i didnt feel like i was drunk or hungover or anything like that i felt different down there and some pain at first but most i felt unusual and dirty i dont remeber anything as hard as i try i just cant remeber anything the last thing i remeber was asking someone to open my beer.. im really serious about this and scared plese save it about the drinking cause i understand..

Well if the last thing you remember is asking someone to open your beer, then maybe you were drugged. I had a similar situation happen to me and I also had 2 drinks and I passed out vomiting. (This was when I was quite the drinker also, so I know my tolerance was way higher.) BUT I let a bouncer buy me a shot at the club.

I would definitely talk to your mom OR get to the doctor and see what you can find out if you are uncomfortable with your parents knowing. I assume since you are a virgin you might have never been to a gynecologist. I would go to a regular doctor if no gyno before and tell them everything you have posted here.

Not only for your sanity but also for any other girls they might do this to in the future. I will be thinking and praying for you. I wish you luck in finding out what you need to know.

Damn. I hate **** like this...If you find out who it was, let me know so I can kick his punkbitch ***.

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i think you should call like a rape hotline and talk to them nobody knows what you feel or what to do unleess they went through it so call

you need to get help--talk to somebody. I know this doesn't seem like a lot of help right now...but you need to go see someone who you can talk with, they will know what you need to do.

Yes I was looking in women's health, but I'm not a pervert please believe me. But since you were at a party with alot of guys, i would think you got raped. Not trying to be the bearer of bad news and I fell for you I really do, but you should talk to your mom or a good friend. This is serious, but if you didn't submit to the sex, I dont believe that you have lost your virginity. Maybe physically but not emotionally.

Its obviously playing on your mind because ive seen you ask a few similar questions now about it.
I think you really need to talk to some of the other people that were at the party and see what they think about it. Its the only way u will be able to put your mind at rest. And maybe get some post trauma counselling.
Good luck I hope you find some answers soon.

Well...why didn't you go to the police? Sperm evidence can be used in convicting the SOB that did this to you. Do you still have the underwear? If so, take them to the police when you go. They will preserve them for evidence. If you have an idea of who did it, then I would tell the police who I thought the suspect was. Then, they will be able to take DNA evidence from the SOB's and see who did this to you. Many people that want to rape girls like you use GHB. It is a tasteless, odorless, colorless substance that is put into drinks in order for them to rape you. You don't remember anything of what went on, etc., so they use that to their advantage. Believe me, I know you are scared about this...but how are you going to feel if you don't see this person get put to justice? He might have done it to many other girls as well and you need to speak up. Don't be afraid. God bless.

i dint know haw old are you? i would love to help you but i dont think i knwo how... sry

i think u got raped which is scary. go see a gynacologist and ask her if your hymen is broken. also talk to someone on a rape hot-line. my cousin got raped. its scary and it takes some time to heal but with counseling it will happen.

Basically all of the answers explain what to do, but i just want to stress telling your parents. Dont keep it a secret from them. Sit them down and tell them what happened, tell them you need them to take you to get tested for stds and pregnancy, ask them to help you, it will take a weight off your shoulders and save them from being mad if you end up being pregnant.

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