Losing virginity is painful is a myth!?!
Question: A lot of people say when women lose their virginity it is painful. It was not for me, I felt like I was in heaven! Why do some complain of this? And what type of pain are they describing exactly? Whatever it is was I did not feel it.
Answers: A lot of people say when women lose their virginity it is painful. It was not for me, I felt like I was in heaven! Why do some complain of this? And what type of pain are they describing exactly? Whatever it is was I did not feel it.
mine didn't hurt either, I think a lot of girls just exaggerate or lie as a way of proving what a virgin they were. no doubt it does hurt some girls though, but I think less than 50% actually bleed
maybe the person you were with was on the smaller side, if you know what i mean.
you could have also already torn your area if you are into sports or horseback ride.
u have a strange nickname...anyways it WAS v.v.v.v.v.painful for me..so i guess it differs for everyone..good for you that it dint hurt
i haven't lost mine, but my friends that have (who are over 21) all said that it was painful for them. but i think they said that just to scare me.
loosing your virginity is painful for some, probably beacuse they are scared, nervous and then they tighten up and dont relax fully. you were obviously very relaxed and happy to be doing so! Good to hear it wasnt painfull for you, coz most of the time it is unfortunetly!
to me it felt like exactly how i thought it would feel..no blood no pain....you are normal..I am nearly 30 and married..it happened many years ago and i thought it would be something special...turns out it felt so normal the guy did not believe i was a virgin...if you are relaxed and prepared it will not hurt...if you are nervous and super scared it will!...It hurt more with other boyfriends than my first (because I was nervous!)....and size does not matter as much as people say it does..if you are nervous and scared about the experience it will hurt more....it hurt more with men I was unsure of than my first....he was a great guy but then was rude to me afterwards and did not believe he was my first...he was an idiot anyway...make sure you do it with someone who is worth it.....i wish i did....do not regret losing my virginity..He was Just an idiot! I have had many younger and older idiot boyfriends since then but I married an older man that I would have been in trouble for loving when I was a teen (because of our age difference)..Choose carefully...my husband is the best thing that has ever happened to me!
Well i'm A guy and I know it was tough for my ex, hey everyone is different, guys and girls, size really does matter hun, and also, do you masturbate? mayabe thats why you didnt feel it, Also Maybe your hymen was already gone, although still you would have felt pain, or not, honestley, there are very very many explanations, just remeber your lucky so be happy, congrats message me if you have further questions, good luck
For some women it can be as many feel very nervous and this makes a females muscles clench more tightly. sometimes there is not enough discharge or lubrication. and unfortunately there are some nasty-loser men who force themselves into a woman,
that can not be true, however, as we all know people have different types of bodies and therefore, each of them handle pains, problems differently. so if you did not feel pain that does not mean that there is not one.