I am promise myself....?!
Question: never to look at porn or anything like that again. I am 15 yrs old and I have been looking at porn and I relize now that it is bad and I am way to young. Please give me encouraging words to keep my promise for the rest of my life. I really am going to keep this promise. I never want to do something like this again, I am to young.
Answers: never to look at porn or anything like that again. I am 15 yrs old and I have been looking at porn and I relize now that it is bad and I am way to young. Please give me encouraging words to keep my promise for the rest of my life. I really am going to keep this promise. I never want to do something like this again, I am to young.
Find other things to occupy your time! Keep yourself busy and if you think of it, make a mental "scold" and carry on! You're not the only one that this has ever happened to and nor will you be the last! Keep your head up and be true to yourself =)
I'm proud of you! That's an awesome goal! There are several things you can do.
Install a filter on your computer. http://xxxchurch.com/ is an awesome website! It's sole purpose is to help people struggling with porn and/or bad relationships (like people sleeping around or having affairs, etc.) If you install their filter, you can select like up to 3 people to be your "accountability partners". You put in their e-mail addresses & if you ever look at porn again, those people will get an e-mail from http://xxxchurch.com/ saying you've "viewed questionable websites" and it'll say which sites you viewed. They have a lot of other ideas on their website, too. (and it's not spyware-- it won't do anything to your PC & they can't get your passwords or bank info).
My husband did this when we first started dating & he hasn't looked at porn since! He said it really helped him to think, "Is 3 minutes of porn really worth losing my wife?"
You're not weird-- so don't think that. Sexuality is something that is evident EVERYWHERE you look! I'm not aware if you know this, but your mind is like a video camera. If you keep doing this, one day when you get married, you're going to be tormented with thoughts of porn you saw at age 15 that you wish you'd never seen. It's going to be a hard battle sometimes, but as long as you try, I think you should be proud of yourself. Good luck!
well just look at other shows like degrassi and funny/scary movies to distract you from watching porn:))
it ok if you watch it just wait until your are much older!!
You wont succeed.
Your hormones, age, etc. are all driving you to think about sex. This is a normal feeling and you will be fighting nature to ignore this.
Porn - like too much violent TV, video games, etc can be over done. Most of it is not bad by itself, but in moderation.
Kudos to you for worrying it is taking over. My usual advice is this:
- Continue to masturbate, but only once per day after all your school work, chores, laundry are done. Use it as a reward.
- Porn, SoloTouch, ASSTR, etc - save these for 1 night per week. Make it some 'special' time where you shower, shave, pamper yourself after doing ALL your work. Trade 'porn' for a gothic romance/boddice ripper or other arousing book. But dont feel guilty for the occasional bit of adult content. The interest is normal and within-limits - not harmful.