SERISOUSLY this IS getting out OF HAND! help?!
Question: -when you have constant fear of your family being broke
-scared of being around mental institutions / prison etc
-phobia of sex because of too much porn
-shaking in new places
-tense in an argument
-scared easily
-had panick attacks + fainted
i'm 16 and a female
if it is!! what kind? and should i see someone?i'm scared to see someone b/c my family will think i'm crazy and i'm afraid
PLEASE HELP!
Answers: -when you have constant fear of your family being broke
-scared of being around mental institutions / prison etc
-phobia of sex because of too much porn
-shaking in new places
-tense in an argument
-scared easily
-had panick attacks + fainted
i'm 16 and a female
if it is!! what kind? and should i see someone?i'm scared to see someone b/c my family will think i'm crazy and i'm afraid
PLEASE HELP!
It sounds like you have a lot of issues to address at one time and they are building up and overwhelming you. Congratulations, you're a girl and you worry a lot. Women worry all of the time, it is just a different set of worries as you get older.
One at a time...
Your family being broke..well you're not really a kid anymore and you're more aware of what is coming in and going out in regards to money with your family. I used to worry about this stuff too when I was your age. If you are really concerned about it then speak with your mom and dad and ask them if everything is okay money-wise.
Scared of being around mental institutions and prisons...Even adults have issues with places like that. That is totally normal. Try not to think about it too much.
Phobia of sex because of too much porn...Ok, you're 16. You shouldn't really be too experienced yet. Maybe you're still a virgin, maybe not but normal for you should be like making out pretty hard and touching and stuff. Quit watching porn, they do some pretty weird things sometimes and as for as what most people do during sex it is pretty mild compared to porn.
Shaking in new places...You're freaked out by a lot of stuff and stressed out. No wonder. Chill.
Tense in an argument...Who are you arguing with? Friends? Parents? Everyone is tense in an argument. Can you think of anyone who actually ENJOYS arguing? I can't. It stresses people out and puts them on edge. No one wants confrontation.
So here's what you do. Talk to someone you trust that is an adult about your stress management and anxiety. It sounds like you have a lot on your plate at the moment. Discuss what you can do to relax a little more with a parent or a counselor. No one is going to think that you are crazy or weird. You are totally normal, I promise, you're just a teenager. Everyone your age has a lot of different worries, some people just hide it better than others. What matters of course is how you fix it. If you discuss it with an adult that knows your situation better, then they can decide if you need to see a doctor about it. Panic attacks and the shaking sounds a like maybe mild depression, possibly a sleep disorder, and anxiety. Tell your parents so they can help you, they love you and they want you to be okay.
you need anti- anxiety medications. Get your doc to give you prozac or something like it and you'll be fine.
Ok you definitely have some anxiety problems but also you have a mental disorder you should see a therapist about this. Medication will help you with these feelings
ya, you might wanna see a phsycologist
just be like "im going to the mall" and go to a phsyc instead
or talk to your councler at school
Probably.
Your family won't think your crazy, trust me. Plus you don't even have to tell them, just make a doctors appointment, cause it sounds like anxiety to me & he'll probably prescribe you something to help.
i think you have severe anxiety
go see someone
drive yourself
and you dont have you tell your family
just say your going shopping or to a friends house or something
sounds like post tramatic stress disorder. I would tell someone and go to a doctor and maybe they can put you on an antianxiety medication.
I would definitly go and talk to some one, and make sure everything is alright.
I think it's just anxiety. Other wise, you should see someone, and if you explain the problem to your family, & your feelings they'll be able to understand you better, and not judge. You just feel scared of the world right now, it's puberty, it happens to everyone just in different ways. If is doesn't stop in the next week, please go see a doctor, for your own safety.
yes, it is panic attacks my dear. I'm 16, and those same things happen to me sometimes. I have had a panic attack too. Talk to your parents and tell them that you need help. The only way to find out what they think is to ask. If you want, it may help telling them your fear of them not understanding and thinking you're crazy. Good Luck!
Try talking to your school counselor. Your family doesn't even need to know that you talked to someone.
you probably have some type of generalized anxiety disorder. you are not crazy, you just have a chemical inbalance in your brain. ask your doc to send you to a psychiatrist who will talk to you and give you meds that will make you feel more like yourself minus the anxiety.
It sounds like you could have anxiety. I know it can be scary to go to your family with something like this but they won't think you're crazy. You should see your doctor and if it's necessary he/she will send you to a therapist. There are some medications you can take for anxiety and then your symptoms will hopefully stop.
Good luck and please see someone soon.
It sure sounds like anxiety. If you're doing any kind of illegal substance, stop it (I'm not assuming you are, by the way). Then, swallow your pride and ask to see someone. Your family might think you are crazy, but they will think you are insane when this progresses enough to give you OCD or something. By confronting it now, you'll probably be saving yourself a lot of grief later.
Also, I highly suggest you lay off caffeine. It's legal and everything, but it still has the ability to chemically alter people's moods.
I feel for you-
Don't worry! You are not crazy. You do need to talk with someone you can trust. A parent, close friend, school counselor, or your doctor. The doctor would be able to refer you to a resource that would more likely help you. I have a stepdaughter that has some of the same issues.
well, i think you should chill out and maybe smoke some weed. but if that doesnt help go to the doctor and tell your parents your just really nervous, maybe not all those details because most parents wouldnt want to hear it lol but a medication should help
You sound like me before I went to my doctor and told her about how I was thinking and feeling. She referred me to a psychiatrist who prescribed an anti-anxiety medication and some sessions with a counselor. I hope the web site below will be of some help to you in understanding that you may suffer from this also. I am fine now. I don't need to see a counselor anymore and I take my medication as prescribed. I don't concern myself with becoming a "druggie". The way I feel about it is that if I were a diabetic, I would have to depend on insulin so what's the difference if I have to depend on an anti-anxiety medication to live a normal life? Of course, that's my opinion as applies to me. Everyone has to deal with their situations in their own way. Good luck to you.
*Edit* I was diagnosed when I was 23 years old and I am 62 now.
if your family is broke and viewing sex-videos, that is at least better than having more kids, but even better would it be to get a job and provide!
I think, it was time to get in contact with social services and try to persuade them, that you need alternative accomodation, some psychological help and financial
support, before you join the down&out line permanently!
your family is outright crazy, not you,- but it could easily
become that way, turn away from the path of destruction
as soon as you can!
you may print and take this message to social services
if you like, in order to support your message to them.
don't be afraid, there is help at hand, and they will treat your
visit in confidence, if you say so! they are beyong redemption anyway. we need to protect our young people from such!
You don't necessarily need medication, but you should definitely see a doctor.
I suspect you have Obsessive Compulsive Disorder.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Obsessive-c...
It's pretty common, it's treatable, and it doesn't mean you're going crazy!
But it won't get better if you don't get help, so make an appointment to go to the doctor, who will probably have a psychiatrist talk to you.