A serious question. Can a mature woman answer this please?!
Question: I'm insecure about the way I look. One of the things I'm insecure about is my chest size. I have small breasts & I've been told I have breasts, they're just small. Although, some people have told me I have no breasts. I'm tired of people picking on me about them. Girls with my build bloom later & I'd look disproportionate with big breasts. I've considered padded bras, pushup bras, surgery, pills, and wearing regular bras instead of sports bras. Once I tried drinking a lot of milk but we have four people in our house so I can't drink up all the milk we have to make my breasts bigger. Whenever I see a girl with bigger breasts than me, I get jealous inside. I'm starting to think I might have BDD and this is part of the reason why because people with BDD usually fixate on one part of their body they dislike.
Answers: I'm insecure about the way I look. One of the things I'm insecure about is my chest size. I have small breasts & I've been told I have breasts, they're just small. Although, some people have told me I have no breasts. I'm tired of people picking on me about them. Girls with my build bloom later & I'd look disproportionate with big breasts. I've considered padded bras, pushup bras, surgery, pills, and wearing regular bras instead of sports bras. Once I tried drinking a lot of milk but we have four people in our house so I can't drink up all the milk we have to make my breasts bigger. Whenever I see a girl with bigger breasts than me, I get jealous inside. I'm starting to think I might have BDD and this is part of the reason why because people with BDD usually fixate on one part of their body they dislike.
Just acknowledging that you probably think about it too much probably means you dont have BDD. Everyone has something about them that they are really self conscious about. I would wear padded bras and only sports bras when you are working out. And try looking at the plus sides. Most models have small breasts.. You can probably wear a lot of stuff that girls with a bigger chests cant wear.
Keep your breasts you are unique and speciall dont become one of those plastic barbies.
So what is the question? How to make them bigger? Or do you just want advice on what to do?
Obviously if it bothers you that much, look into breast implants. I have 3 family members who got them and have no regrets what so ever! It does a lot for your self esteem.
If plastic surgery isn't for you, just try buying more padded bras.
Hope that helped a little..
be happy with what god gave you. no one is perfect but you are in gods eyes... i didn't have big boobs eather but i was glad as i felt sorry for the ones that did because the more weight you have up there the harder it is to carry it around...
its hard on your back,neck, and shoulders when your boobs are too big.
so please be happy with what you have and think about all those kids out there that are happy with eating bugs for breakfast and porage for dinner cause that's all they have.
cheers
mystic
I'm 16 and I have relatively small breasts too. I know how you feel- i wish i was bigger. It's horrible to go shopping and find a top i really like, but it won't fit nicely because of my small chest. I guess, unless you consider surgery or hormone pills like oestrogen, you just have to make do. While browsing through a magazine, i came across a beautiful girl who had her top off and was also flat chested. But her she was modelling clothes on a skateboard, and she had this look on her face- almost defiant. I loved it. Think of others too- Kiera Knightly isn't all that busty, but she is beautiful. And the general population- for every person that has big boobs, another one does not. I hope you come to love the body you have =)
OK, sweetie. Mature woman here, I'll try to help. First of all, drinking milk will not make your breasts bigger. It will make you gain weight, which in turn may make your breasts bigger, but are you willing to gain weight to get bigger breasts? You didn't say how old you are, but you may still be growing. For example, I started out my 20's with a B cup, and finished my 20's with a D cup, so you never know.
Please don't resort to surgery, at least not yet. Go to a nice lingerie shop, and ask for help in choosing a good push-up bra. They do work.
Try not to be jealous of others. It won't get you anywhere. If you truly think you have BDD, then you should talk to your doctor about that, he or she can refer you to a doctor that can help you with that.
I wish you the best. I hope I helped a little.
I know it won't help you to relax, but I want to be sure that you know that there are a *LOT* of guys out there that PREFER smaller-breasts. (I know, I'm one!) As a prior commenter put it, don't become one of those plastic people!
You're evidently young, so you've got a lot of time ahead of you for things to grow...Don't buy into the Madison Avenue hype. It's nonsense. Be confident in your looks and enjoy who you are - there are going to be a zillion guys who are THRILLED with the way you look and who will love your body shape whatever it turns out to be.
Orion
If you're a female, you either have or are going to develop breasts, so ignore the people who are teasing you (who are probably young boys).
Skip the surgery, skip the pills but go with a padded or push-up bra if you think that will help. Go to Victoria's Secret and ask some questions. You don't have to buy everything, or anything, that you are shown there, but it will give you a good idea of what you can do.
The only reason milk would make your breasts bigger is because of the growth hormones in it, and you can get growth hormones in any dairy. In our American diet, we are actually bombarded with growth hormones and it's difficult to avoid them! For more on this, go to communitycures.com .
The best thing you can do for yourself is like yourself more, which if you're a teenager, I know is difficult...with your peers always teasing you. Just keep in mind that life gets better once you're clear of the teen years.
Keep smiling! :)
Everyone has something about them that they don't like. It doesn't make you any different from the rest of us. Experiment with different bras. I can tell you one thing for sure, wearing a sports bra will definitely make them look smaller, so you want to steer clear of those when possible.
i'm interested to know how old you are...
i'm 26 - don't know whether you'd consider that mature but read on and decide at the end!
i've been working for plastic surgeons for 4 years, seen so many women have enlargements and reductions, and most of the enlargements are because they're so conscious about something most people haven't even noticed and reductions because their breasts are too big, heavy and give them back pain,
have you actually ASKED these people that have told you you're small or are they volunteering the information? if they're volunteering it then they're not the kind of people you should be hanging around and if you're asking people and factually you're small, they're not going to lie to you...
what's interesting is that when i tell people what i do, the guys recoil in disgust...they like the look of big boobs but the general consensus is that they look fantastic but they feel like $hit...
when i was younger i had a serious complex about the fact that i have small breasts [A-cup] (we're talking 10 years ago) and only recently one of my friends reminded me that they all used to call me "amsterdam" when we were at school...
funny thing is that now, i'm so happy they're small.
....at least in 30 years time they won't be hanging down by my knees...
drinking milk is a sweet idea but nothing except surgery will make your breasts any bigger. think v-e-r-y carefully before you go ahead with anything...implants don't last forever and they'll have to be changed roughly every 10 years - it's an expensive business. they can leak, move, ripple, go hard, you can bleed, get bad scarring....i don't need to go on.
and bear in mind it's not gonna make guys like you any less - trust me, i still get the guys and it hasn't bothered a single one of them...so i'm presuming it's all good!
i know it's easy for me to say (apparently when i was 15 i swore blind i was gonna have a boob job when i had the money) but i've worked in an industry where vanity has taken over and people having cancer/trauma reconstructions
or birth-defect corrections wish to god they didn't have to see a plastic surgeon and i can now say that hand-on-heart there's noooo way i would have anything done (and bear in mind i could get it free!!)
look at your body and seek out the parts you like that you know others would envy...long curly/straight hair...big eyes...nice smile...long legs....flat stomach...
the same way you're envying girls with big breasts, others are envying you for something you may not even have noticed. (including a girl or two with big breasts who can't stand them!!)
hope i've helped...even if only a little bit... :o)
hi im annother one that belongs to the ttc,tiny **** club. im so small i use band aids for a bra! dont be embarassed,i think its nice to have small breasts.im comfortable with this,i use the band aids so my nipples dont show whenever i wear a shirt that will show my nipples should i wear a thin shirt.