What would you have done... *Click and answer please*?!
Question: So my boyfriend tells me he kisses a girl at her
party last night...
This girl happens to be someone I'm not on good terms with.
I think he got dared to do it.
I kinda just looked at him and laughed.
Would you have done the same?
*And I know this doesnt really belong in Womens Health, but I figure their are mostly women here so..*
Answers: So my boyfriend tells me he kisses a girl at her
party last night...
This girl happens to be someone I'm not on good terms with.
I think he got dared to do it.
I kinda just looked at him and laughed.
Would you have done the same?
*And I know this doesnt really belong in Womens Health, but I figure their are mostly women here so..*
I would have bluntly told him it was immature and inconsiderate of him and if he lacks loyalty he is free to find a girl who enjoys such things in a man.. At least he has the balls to tell you but still.. is he sorry for it? if not, I'd set him straight with a good talking to. relationships are based on trust. talk to him about it. ask why he did.. get the info and if he doesn't have a good reason.. bite his head off, even more so if he isn't sorry.
P.S there is never a good reason. if you can't forgive him and will constantly judge him on it.. the relationship will not stay together.
I most of definitely not of laughed about it! I would actually be really upset, but that's just I'm completely against cheating. Rather it was a peck or make out, I wouldn't be too happy! And you just laughing about it makes him feel he can get away with more cheating.
Ummmm no i would have dumped his sorry ***!
If you just looked at him and laughed then it will most likely happen again because by you laughing about it, it showed you wernt bothered by it!
Dared or not it still should not have happened but if you are willing to accept it then hey he is going to walk all over you!
EDIT: If you are so in love and wont dump him then why bother asking this stupid question?
I bet he was apologetic, they always are when they f*ck up!
there are alot of factors here.
can you trust the way he feels about you? if yes, then I can sort of understand why you blew it off as nothing.
however, I wouldnt be too pleased, honestly...especially if you A. know the girl and B. she knows you and C. you dont even like her!
personally.. if my guy gets shwasted one night when hes out and hooks up wit some skank for a sec in the club then what ev.. thats ONE thing...howvere in this case I would be super upset...id slap him silly!! because then what does that say about your relationship with him? that he can just run around and do what he wants, n walk all over u... infront of everyone to see?
you need to talk to him
i wouldn't have laughed... i caught my bf kissing my (now ex-) best friend so it's actually better that you don't like the girl. still, you should seriously talk to him
I consider that cheating and wouldn't laugh. I'd be pissed off and would most likely break up with him. Why? Because I would always hold it against him that he kissed another girl when we're going out. B.S. babe. He's a loser.
yeh i wouldve done the same, and i did do the same to my boyfrend but he made out with the girl. i looked at him and cracked up.. they dont expect it . they think that were emotionally crippled and will sit there and cry.. and yeh the next day the relationship was overr
if it were me, and he knew that i wasnt on good terms with this girl regardless if it was a dare, i would have really gone off on him.but he really shouldnt have done that w/ ne girl unless the two of u have an open realtionship like that.
Yes, I agree when you say you are to in love... when someone thinks there significant other wont leave then they begin to beleive they can get away with stuff... this could only be the beginning... but s good sign is that he was honest with you. but perhaps you shouldnt have laughed because now he might think this is okay... i dont think you should dump him but i do think you should have a nice long chat with him... i personally would have talked to him and told him about my feelings... and does he know you two are not on good terms? because i personally would not want to date someone that could intenionally hurt me...
I would slap him across his stupid backstabbing face and then dump him.
13? in love? nah. dump him. he thinks he can get away with it. what are you 8th grade? hes not worth it.
I would be upset and let him know about it. He is supposed to be committed to you. I know you are just kids, but he should still respect the fact that you two have decided to be in a relationship together. Even if it was a dare, he should have told the person, "No, I have a girlfriend."