Whats so fatal about waiting til mairage?!
Question: My friend says it's just stupid of me to wait til mairage to have intercource,and I'm trying to convince her to exept me, even though I don't want to wast it. I have nothing against her for not waiting for mairage. I told her I'm doing so,becouse I dont want to risk pregnancy, and i can do other things with my boyfriend for pleasure (oraly and stuff). She keeps saying that I shouldn't even get mairied, becouse it's coruped.
Answers: My friend says it's just stupid of me to wait til mairage to have intercource,and I'm trying to convince her to exept me, even though I don't want to wast it. I have nothing against her for not waiting for mairage. I told her I'm doing so,becouse I dont want to risk pregnancy, and i can do other things with my boyfriend for pleasure (oraly and stuff). She keeps saying that I shouldn't even get mairied, becouse it's coruped.
I think it's smart of you to wait till you're married to have sex so you wouldn't have unwanted pregnancy (hey you're smarter than most of these preteens using yahoo q&a asking 'am i pregnant?')
it's kinda weird that you think it's okay to have oral sex with your boy friend before the marriage.
since the only reason why you won't have actual intercourse so you won't get pregnant, if your friend ask you next time, just tell her 'only reason why i don't want actual sex before marriage is beacuse i dont wanna get knocked up!' i'm sure you're friend will back off
I'd say what's stupid is thinking that you're pure and holy despite having oral sex. My guess is, your friend is annoyed that you're acting as though you're better than her for putting off this one thing while enjoying everything else, which is just stupid.
That said: it is absolutely, no question, your right to say "no" to whatever you want, for as long as you want, no questions asked. And good for your boyfriend for knowing that.
As for the corruption of marriage, I wish it would be more corrupted. Since the "traditional" model oppresses and controls women, I think we could do with an update.
At least you have a smart head on your shoulders. Waiting 'til marriage is mostly a religious demand. It's just waiting until you've found the right person and marry him.
I'm very happy that you're not having sex because it might cause pregnancy, VERY smart of you :-). And if she won't accept you for believing that, then she's not much of a friend right? A friend would except you no matter what. Keep thinking for yourself and I wish you luck sweet :-).
There's nothing wrong with waiting. The right guy for you will either feel the same way, or be willing to go along with it. I also think it's very good that you don't judge others harshly when their choice doesn't match yours. Your friend doesn't seem to be willing to make the effort to understand your choice and prefers to slap a label on it to avoid dealing with the issues.
She also says man is an animal too?
Sweetheart good for you it is your body you have intercourse when you want it
i think that it is very strong of you to stand up for what you believe and maybe your friend is just jealous because she wish that she had your strength!
i think that if she doesnt except you, its her problem and should not hinder your happiness or view on marriage!!!
marriage is the most intimate relationship you can have with a man mentally and emotionally so i would say it is beautiful and not corrupted at all.
good for you!:)