Teenage sex-?!


Question: thanx to all for that quick response... i really appreciate it... now i would like to know if she is pregnant and i can do something to get her out of this situation by means of abortion and that obviously with her consent, do you guys think that i would be helping in my childs future? i was 17 with my first child and wouldn't want my daughter to go through what i had to...


Answers: thanx to all for that quick response... i really appreciate it... now i would like to know if she is pregnant and i can do something to get her out of this situation by means of abortion and that obviously with her consent, do you guys think that i would be helping in my childs future? i was 17 with my first child and wouldn't want my daughter to go through what i had to...

what you need to do is think about what is right for you and your daughter.
let her know how her life will change and how it will affect her.
if getting an abortion is what you need to do, its what you need to do .. you know ?
people who are saying its cruel and whatnot, they arent going through this. and although its not the best choice. it might have to be hers.
just make a list of the positives and negatives about having the baby.
and REALLY think about it .
and talk to her about it as much as you can .
hope this helped !

well u set a horrible example and u cant change it

dont do dat its killing thee baby, let her have the baby if she is pregnant

Why don't you advise her to carry the baby to term and give the baby up for adoption? There are so many parents that want to adopt why not bless them through your daughters difficult circumstances? Abortion will only make her feel guilty for doing that and will always regret it. Knowing your daughter now, would you have aborted her at 17?

I'm not sure that abortion would be helping with her future...that will just lead to years of therapy and bad decisions. The best thing you could do would be to support her and acknowledge to her that you made a mistake and you don't want her to do the same.

What's your question? Teen age sex? No don't do it. It can get you in trouble.

Well. Its her body and her decision. personally, I think parents and teens should talk about sex, birthcontrol, condoms etc more often, to prevent accidents like this. Talk to her. Its the only thing you can do, since I was 14, I vowed not to have sex till I was 18, (2 more years to go) And If she is pregnant, and not mature enough to handle a child.. Dont just rush to abortion! There are plenty of families that are infertile and would love to adopt such a blessing.
:-) Even though you did make a mistake in your life when you were 17, You still love you daughter right? Try to imagine you know, aborting her. Its a horrible feeling that leaves most a little off (not all, Most!) I sugguest Getting information on both abortions, and adoptions. And you both, together find out the best soulution;
(or possibly keep the baby)
Good luck!

This is a situation that yes, is going to affect you - but ultimately its going to affect your daughter. If she feels she is responsible, and mature enough to deal with this situation I think that the decision should be entirely up to her. It's difficult, but god doesn't give you more than what you can handle - and if she truly feels she wants to keep it, then that's what she should do. If not, then settle the situation otherwise. But I feel that if you as her mother, believe she can handle this if she chooses to do so, she'll have your support (which is the most important thing in this type of situation) and she can do it.

it's her decision

Sweetheart ignore that crass answer from Johnny A , Discuss it with your daughter and see what she wants to do, don't try to persuade her one way or the other but support what ever she wants to do,, PS you sound like a caring mother Good luck to you and your daughter

If she pregnant dont kill the baby please....dont be an horrible person! Plus your daughter can end up hating you. I seen it in real life and also on tv





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