School. I don't know. im mixed up.?!
Question: Okayy. im 13 going on 14.
i cant really deal right now.
i have a big project to do infront of the class
( with a bully, my ex friend and my evil teacher --> everyone has one. at least. ) AND. i cant deal with the stress of popularity. I can't deal with all that AND trying to manage grades so i can become a vet. I onlii have one more yr. at this school but its feeling like a thoasand. i just need tips to get me on track before i break down and cry. with ( tests, bullie, popularity, guys, friends, mean teachers, projects to present. ) ALL in 2 weeks. please help. im really greatful of the help i got for my last question. : ) . ty.
Answers: Okayy. im 13 going on 14.
i cant really deal right now.
i have a big project to do infront of the class
( with a bully, my ex friend and my evil teacher --> everyone has one. at least. ) AND. i cant deal with the stress of popularity. I can't deal with all that AND trying to manage grades so i can become a vet. I onlii have one more yr. at this school but its feeling like a thoasand. i just need tips to get me on track before i break down and cry. with ( tests, bullie, popularity, guys, friends, mean teachers, projects to present. ) ALL in 2 weeks. please help. im really greatful of the help i got for my last question. : ) . ty.
take a deep breath. you have to chill
i totally understand where you;re coming from, i have the same issues
and since, i believe you're only in 8th grade... you have to have fun
i was just in 8th grade last year, and it was stressful, but it was also fun
basically, waht i thoguht, since i was the oldest grade in the school, was that i could just rule the school, which i basically did. the big thing is that you cant care what other people think of you. When you do, it shows and then they know that theyre bothering you, and thats what they want. You just have to rock that presentation, and if you didnt, just have the confidence and act like you did. just chill out, and you'll do great.
good luck babe =]
Do you know what No Dose is? They make your days last so much longer, and you can get so much more done
I would take each thing one at a time and think about how you can deal with it. It's too stressful for anyone to think of it all at once. As you complete each thing it will feel like a big weight being lifted off your shoulders so that's something to look forward to. Don't think to much about those people you don't care for, just keep your head up and give your presentation as if they are not even in the room (focus on someone you do like in the front row, works every time!).
Stay strong and keep your self organized. I heard the middle of HS is the hardest, which I'm not looking forward to ;(
Try not to care about popularity, be a normal person and screw what people think. Live For Yourself! Now, about the bully, tell him to leave you alone and warn him, then if they keep bothering you, tell the teacers or dead to do something. Ignore your ex-friend and try to just be a normal person to them, do the project because when you present it it may be embaressing but its over before you know it. DOnt worry about your grades too much. You're in 8th grade, that wont affect your dream too much. Do good, but dont overwork or over worry yourself, you still got highschool to prove yourself and work hard.
Just chill and calm yourself. Im 13 too, and i know its hard, but live for you, care for you, and just try to make your life as easy as you can. When you get home do your homework and such right away and take the rest of the night to make yourself happy. With music, friends and phone, games, computer, whatever makes you happy. Try to not let life get to you, its hard, but you gotta struggle through. Its the last quarter anyways.
Best of luck =]
just 2 weeks left , you have done well to get through the year.
just sit back and take a breath coz u sound so stressed and you are going to make yourself sick.
honestly forget the nastiness and be a nerd ! u can focus on your work better and get the grades u need to be a vet .
a good idea is make yourself a timetable/calender of what you have to do. mark everything down , give yourself limts ie 30 mins on maths BREAK 30mins on Science BREAK.
dont run yourself down with all this work .
and last of all find yourself a nice group of friends which have the same view of working and freinds. friends help u through stuff
You need to have a talk with your guidance counselor at school. Discuss all of your issues with him/her especially the problem with the bully. Focus more on your studies and less on your friends. Eliminate activities that are not directly necessary for maintaining good grades. Keep dropping activities until you feel the stress lift. Then when you get past the big project you can start adding activities back. When you learn to prioritize you will find you have less stress.
Read "The Seven Habits of Highly Effective Teens"
#1-- POPULARITY IS OVER RATEDDD!!!
if you are yourself you will naturally become more popular because you aren't fake like the other "popular" kids
another thing about popularity- in middle school its the big thing to be one of the so called "popular" kids, but once you hit high school the whole "popularity" seen dies off and kids realize how much they really hate the "popular" kids. once this happens the real "popular" kids are the ones who have confidence in themselves and are nice to everyone. these are the real popular kids.
#2-- about the bully.
if he's just bullying you then it sounds to me like he might like you and wants to get your attention but isn't sure how to do it in a cool way. so he thinks if he acts mean it makes him seem tough and cool when really its just the opposite. if he's bullying everyone then it means he has a lot of insecurities about himself and is trying to put others down to make him seem better
#3--lastly about the "evil" teacher.
everyone is going to have ATLEAST one mean teacher in their school years, if not more, so you're just gonna have to stick it out just like everyone else
hope this advice helps.
ps. im a freshman in high school so i know all of this first hand. and trust me when i say i went through all of the same stuff in middle school. high school is 48936793xs better than middle school
Well i dont know what your question is exactly but i will try to help out
Find an hour that you can realax a day, try to disconect from the world
hit the beach, write/listen to music, dance, walk through the park
dont go shopping or call friends or watch tv or be in the internet
that will make you be more aware of more things you cant handle
just try to have an hour where you kind of dissapear and release your energy instead taking in other peoples problems
also for studies
do your best
but dont stress out
if you stress out to much your grades will lower anyway
about the bullie
either stand up the them
(maybe he/she will say something mean or do something but better one big thing the a billion mini things)
or
ignore them
they just want attention
Guys
dont stress about them
a guy is supposed to make you more comfy
not strees you out
look pretty but dont tottaly stress...the right guy will come
popularity
dont care
popularity is kind of stupid
if you stay out of it then youl get friends that like you for you
the best way to win that competition is to be out of it and be yourself and be the most popular in you own little popularity
Friends
are not supposed to strees you out
if they do they are not friends
and if it is because the gossip
then try putting another topic
mean teachers
they willl all end soon
the school year ends in about a few months
just do the work and participate
try to focus on you
and make your own circle of good friends
and do whatever relaxes you but still stay on track
please dont stress about popularity
its stupid
look YOUR best
even if that is a messy bun and sweats
dont stress
you will not see most of them next year anywayys