Ladies Help! Anything i can do to bring my 16yo girlfriend to orgasm?!
Question: I've been with her for 1 1/2 years and we've had sex quite a few times but i can't get her to come. I can last about 40 minutes but is there anything else i can do. We try oral sex quite a lot as well but i just wanted to know any advice on this subject?
Answers: I've been with her for 1 1/2 years and we've had sex quite a few times but i can't get her to come. I can last about 40 minutes but is there anything else i can do. We try oral sex quite a lot as well but i just wanted to know any advice on this subject?
Foreplay is much more than oral sex! I can't stand when my bf starts to make out w/ me then moves down to my neck and breasts and starts to nibble. play with every part of her. Her thighs, neck, back. Nibbling is one of the most sensual thingd besides gently licking each hotspot. Try slowly playing with her with your fingers while still carassing her entire body. If you do it right she'll come before you even stick it in there. Ask her what she REALLY likes and make sure she's being honest. Sometimes girls feel embarresed about what they want b/c they think they're bf will find it unatractive.
rubb her clitt!
try different positions, like her on top if you haven't already and experiment cause the diff. positions all hit different angles in the vag.also don't skip the foreplay!and try to play with her clit while your going at it,it feels great.
well did you try diffrent positions and diffrent sppeds maybe get her a little horny before you have sex buy her some dildos and then you can maybe give her an orgasm.(sounds kinky i like it)
If she's not comfortable she won't orgasm. Ask if she masturbates.
If she doesn't, she should, because the key to female orgasm is THEM knowing what makes them feel good. If she can't tell you what feels good because she's clueless, then how are you supposed to find out? You can't do it for her... you can help her along, touch and see what feels good, etc, but again, she has to do it on her own first.
Good luck, and remember, keep talking about it with her.... don't nag, but be supportive and get her to understand that you just want her to feel the same kind of pleasure you do. Some women just don't orgasm well during intercourse and if that's the case and she knows she CAN orgasm through other ways, try combining them to see if you can get her to come that way.
You are probably trying too hard. Then some girls just never have orgasms. Sounds like you have the mechanics down, but there is no love. How old are you? If you started when she was 14, you should be in jail. Have you asked her Dad and Mother how you should be doing their daughter?
Many women do not orgasm vaginally. Massage her clit, or have her do it (she's probably better at it, no offense but it is hers).
She needs to know or figure out what will make her orgasm, then she can direct you on what to do.
what my boyfriend does is when he's like fingering me he rubs my clit realy realy fast. that gets me to the point of climaxing (bending her over like ur bed sofa table) and doing her realy realy hard and get her to rub her clit , will do the trick, does for meee
Oral sex is a great way to start. However, if one or both of you rubbing her clit doesnt work, try buying a small vibrating bullet thats on a "ring" that goes around the tip of your finger. This is a fool-proof way to have an insane orgasm.
Have 3 or 4 of your freinds spend the night with her, have them report back to you.