Why can't I reach orgasm with sex or in front of boyfriend?!
Question: I can only do it when i'm alone... I can't even orgasm in front of him when i'm doing myself. What's the deal? Am i too shy or just uncomfortable with him? I'm not blaming him. He feels sad that I can't "reach it" with him. We have sex frequently.
Answers: I can only do it when i'm alone... I can't even orgasm in front of him when i'm doing myself. What's the deal? Am i too shy or just uncomfortable with him? I'm not blaming him. He feels sad that I can't "reach it" with him. We have sex frequently.
You are just too self conscious and not relaxed enough. It has nothing to do with being uncomfortable with him, just maybe not comfortable enough yet to let go. Keep trying it will work...relax.
i think you need to be more relaxed and comfortable.
and tell yourself that it's okay with him.
i think it's in your head.
i have the same problem
i can do it all the time by myself
but can't do it while actually having sex
i've had intercourse with 3 people and it always
lasts like an hour and a half until i end up having to fake
it just to get him off of me.
i don't know what to do, and im scared to have sex again.
just try more foreplay i guess.
Well dont feel bad- most women cannot have an orgasm from just vaginal stimulation alone but it sound like you cant at all? You are probably just really self concious. Just know this- your guy thinks your sexy, even if you dont think you are. Tell yourself this while yall are having sex. Relax and get your mind off of everything else. Focus on all the sensations and get him to play with you in other ways while yall have sex. Have lots if foreplay and try to destress yourself before you have sex. Try to get all the way into the mood- take a hot bath together and move slow- but again, most importantly just know that he thinks your sexy and wants you