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Question: if i even masturbate, have oral sex, or intercourse, after i have an orgasm, i cant go on any more, i have to wait a minute. and actually i dont think i have an orgasm when i do intercourse
okay...
1. is there anyone else out there that has to stop for a minute after having an orgasm, and if you dont it will feel weird or even hurt a LITTLE
2. why cant i have an orgasm while having intercourse? the boy i messed with before said it because i dont know how to. is there such thing as knowing how to have an orgasm lol
Answers: if i even masturbate, have oral sex, or intercourse, after i have an orgasm, i cant go on any more, i have to wait a minute. and actually i dont think i have an orgasm when i do intercourse
okay...
1. is there anyone else out there that has to stop for a minute after having an orgasm, and if you dont it will feel weird or even hurt a LITTLE
2. why cant i have an orgasm while having intercourse? the boy i messed with before said it because i dont know how to. is there such thing as knowing how to have an orgasm lol
Your reaction is normal.
In fact, us guys have that too. After an orgasm, the skin is super-sensitive, so it can feel irritating to get too much stimulation right after that. Totally normal.
Your boyfriend is obviously an inexperienced guy, and an idiot too (for blaming YOU):
It is FAR more common for girls to orgasm from oral sex, than intercourse. So again, you're normal here too.
The reason is, the clit is FAR more sensitive than anything inside of you.
So it's easier to c u m from the clit being stimulated.
Now, having said that, there is something called a G-Spot orgasm, which is unfortunately, much harder to achieve.
The g-spot is inside of you. There are a million websites on this. Look up www.wikipedia.org there's a pretty good explanation of this there.
The important thing is, for him to get into a position to hit your g-spot. (It helps if one of you massages your clit at the same time)
The second thing is, YOU need to know what stages you go through before you have a g-spot orgasm, and the biggest reason girls don't have one, is that one stage is, they feel like they're going to pee. So most girls stop, before they have a g-spot orgasm because of this.
Your guy has a lot to learn, so it's time that BOTH of you sat down and did some research on this, and tell him no, it's not just your fault, BOTH of you have to work at this!