My Girlfriend says as she gets hotter it hurts more?!
Question: When I've been fingering my girlfriend, when she starts getting hotter, she says that it hurts more the more sensitive it gets. It feels great, but it hurts, so she can't stand it, and then we have to slow down or stop for a bit for her to cool down.
I'm wondering if this is normal and there are ways to work around it, or if I should just keep going, because to tell you the truth this is my first girlfriend and I really don't have any idea how the female orgasm works... does it stop hurting the more intense things get? I don't quite understand..
Thanks in advance for any helpful guidance, she's just stubborn and isn't the type to guide me. I just want whats best for her :]
Answers: When I've been fingering my girlfriend, when she starts getting hotter, she says that it hurts more the more sensitive it gets. It feels great, but it hurts, so she can't stand it, and then we have to slow down or stop for a bit for her to cool down.
I'm wondering if this is normal and there are ways to work around it, or if I should just keep going, because to tell you the truth this is my first girlfriend and I really don't have any idea how the female orgasm works... does it stop hurting the more intense things get? I don't quite understand..
Thanks in advance for any helpful guidance, she's just stubborn and isn't the type to guide me. I just want whats best for her :]
shes probably too dry. You need to "play" with her and get her really excited. Kiss her neck, breasts etc. Dont just jam your fingers up there because that will cause her pain. Focus on her clit and start of lightly. Dont be too rough. Be aware of her body movements also. If she starts pushing into you then she wants you to go harder.
Its sweet that you want whats best for her...
good luck!!
:-)
You might be rubbing too hard or she might not be wet enough. Are you rubbing her clit? It's best to focus there to get to her orgasm, probably lightly at first and then slowly building up the momentum.
Maybe she isn't wet enough, so go slow untill she gets wetter
Quit being a pansy and just have sex with her, thats how you make it quit hurting.
Bring in some foreplay before you head for her clit. I suggest some sensual massage or kissing that usually teases. Make it more romantic and pleasurable which ought to make her wetter and easier for you to finger her. Good luck :)