Why won't she let me help her?!
Question: The girl I like jsut got dumped by her bf (her first one) and didn't get a reason...She is really torn up and will cry...
3 days ago she was very upset in class and the teacher asked her out of the room to see why
Next period I asked her if she was ok ,she nodded.
2 days ago she was still upset so I asked what was wrong , she ignored me.
I think she knows I like her.Does she feel awkward ( we used to be friends), shy (she lieks me too but is confused), or depressed (she just got dumped and was made fun of by her supposed "bf)?
I will catch her looking at me in gym and she will catch me looking at her in class....but recently (5 days ago) she has been shy around me and doesn't talk as much, won't even look at me in the eye....
I'm confused and hurting because I can't help her (When you see somethign so perfect you want to protect it from the world , but you can''t you just need to let it go)I'm standing there tryign to let her know I'm concerned but she won't let me help..
Answers: The girl I like jsut got dumped by her bf (her first one) and didn't get a reason...She is really torn up and will cry...
3 days ago she was very upset in class and the teacher asked her out of the room to see why
Next period I asked her if she was ok ,she nodded.
2 days ago she was still upset so I asked what was wrong , she ignored me.
I think she knows I like her.Does she feel awkward ( we used to be friends), shy (she lieks me too but is confused), or depressed (she just got dumped and was made fun of by her supposed "bf)?
I will catch her looking at me in gym and she will catch me looking at her in class....but recently (5 days ago) she has been shy around me and doesn't talk as much, won't even look at me in the eye....
I'm confused and hurting because I can't help her (When you see somethign so perfect you want to protect it from the world , but you can''t you just need to let it go)I'm standing there tryign to let her know I'm concerned but she won't let me help..
I'm 13 too. : )
She probablly just feels awkward at the moment and needs some time to think this all over. She's still hurt and can't get over what just happened to her. Give her some time alone then in about a week ask her if you can talk with her. Say you're always there for her if she needs anything and just plain be sweet (like u already are). : )
This probablly won't last very long.
I advise you to go up to her at locker break and privately & understandably ask her what's wrong. She will probably tell you if you act understandable. Good luck & this is normal for her to be acting this way, I am pretty sure every girl, she is just trying to get over him, I would think. Oh & one more thing; don't be all over her case, then your going to be on her last nerves.
Give her some time just if you try talking to her dont talk about her ex make her laugh or something DONT be all over her case or DONT bug her if she talks to you good if not leave her alone for a bit but she probly dose feel awckward beeing around you but trust she will get over it might take a wile but it will be back to narmal eventually
she probably is just a little embarrased. and think about all the people who are probably walking around asking her if shes ok...it probably is really embarrasing. she probably realizes you are just being a sweet nice guy, and she appreciates it. just give her some time and she willl turn around
You are such a sweetheart :-) Give her some space but be her friend and let her know that you are there for her. Sometimes tho people just have to figure things out for themselves. Talk to her about things other than the breakup. She'll appreciate the distraction. Good luck.