Rough sex...a bit too rough sometimes(serious question)?!
Question: My boyfriend and I have a wonderful sex life but sometimes he bruises my "private area". Like after sex, my insides would be a bit swollen and sometimes I would bleed(only a little). Do you think its because there's not enough lubrication down there or because he's too big for me(I'm 5'0" and he's 6'1" and his stuff is ~7"). I usually wait 4 days the max before we have sex again but it seems like the wound keeps reopening. I told him that I think he cut me down there and he looked and he saw the cut. So, right now I'm on my period so no sex until its over. But should I get some lubrication? Is water-based better than oil-based lubrication? Or should I just make him go down on me evertime we have sex(which I don't want to do because his tongue is so rough that it swells up my cl*t)?
Answers: My boyfriend and I have a wonderful sex life but sometimes he bruises my "private area". Like after sex, my insides would be a bit swollen and sometimes I would bleed(only a little). Do you think its because there's not enough lubrication down there or because he's too big for me(I'm 5'0" and he's 6'1" and his stuff is ~7"). I usually wait 4 days the max before we have sex again but it seems like the wound keeps reopening. I told him that I think he cut me down there and he looked and he saw the cut. So, right now I'm on my period so no sex until its over. But should I get some lubrication? Is water-based better than oil-based lubrication? Or should I just make him go down on me evertime we have sex(which I don't want to do because his tongue is so rough that it swells up my cl*t)?
wowz, i feel better wuth water based.
making him go down EVERY TIME is kind of ....for lack of a better word, dominating. tell him to be easier on you.
somtime rough is only a once amonth thing
go to your gyno and see what they have to say.
there are diffrent ways to have sex
good luck
Get some KY gel. You probably need it. Good luck
slow down hun