Was I mean?!
Question: Well, there is a girl in my class and one day her bff,her,and I are talkign and she is talking about how her mom blames everythign on her.
The nshe says "One time our basement got mold in it after the storm (katrina) and our bathroom is right above it. So my mom blamed the mold on me jsut because I take hour long baths"
I'm a visual learner so I visualize everything I say,hear,and think.
So I inadvertantly visualized that, and I've been throgh puberty and all so you get where this is going.
So a week later I said "Remember when you and Kelly were talking? And how you were talkign abotu that bathing thing?Well I'm a visual learner,a guy, and have been through puberty...you get where this is going.So jsut for future reference please avoid such topics"
I was kind in my tone and statement, but she might've interpreted it as that image is unattractive.
Would you?
(btw I have a crush on this girl)
Answers: Well, there is a girl in my class and one day her bff,her,and I are talkign and she is talking about how her mom blames everythign on her.
The nshe says "One time our basement got mold in it after the storm (katrina) and our bathroom is right above it. So my mom blamed the mold on me jsut because I take hour long baths"
I'm a visual learner so I visualize everything I say,hear,and think.
So I inadvertantly visualized that, and I've been throgh puberty and all so you get where this is going.
So a week later I said "Remember when you and Kelly were talking? And how you were talkign abotu that bathing thing?Well I'm a visual learner,a guy, and have been through puberty...you get where this is going.So jsut for future reference please avoid such topics"
I was kind in my tone and statement, but she might've interpreted it as that image is unattractive.
Would you?
(btw I have a crush on this girl)
fix it by explaining it to her and then saying I just got a mental picture when you said that and I don't want to be disrespectful but its hard to not think about you in that way when you are so beautiful. Or something along those lines...definitely explain it to her she probably doesn't get it anyways. So it may all be nothing to her right now.
however next time don't say things like that. If you are trying to flirt it isn not the way to do it, trust me. She will think you are weird or a sicko. Just fix it and tell her you just seem to get a bit nervous around her. or something to hint it but dont say weird dumb things though.
Well I would say you probably blew it because she probably just thinks you are weird.
I love it how you respect her like that, but for future referance, that's kinda weird to say to a girl. If I were her, I'd be a little weirded out. Don't worry though, you still have hope! Next time, just try and get through it. Also, it may seem kinda weird to her that you said it a week afterwards, almost like you've been thinking of her naked for a week. So yeah, definately not what you want to say to a girl
just tell her if she met it wrong in a sweet way that you didn't mean it like that and you just dont like those topics
Dude are you kidding. I dont know how old you are but you've got some serious learning to do. Not trying to rip on you but what a stupid thing to say. If the girl gave you a look its because what you said is weird as all get out and because you said it after the fact. You cant say that kind of sh** man, you gotta either make a dirty joke about her in the shower or leave it be. Wise up man.
I'd definitely think you were either;
a. Gay
b. a prude or
c. a dick!
What is wrong with you? It's not her fault your filthy mind went to the gutter when she mentioned she takes hour long baths! Good God man - get a life!
So the two guys who posted here would be easy to tell even if they didn't have avatars. You shouldn't have said that b/c she will get that you have been thinking about her naked. But she is your friend so just don't mention it and stop making weird comments. ( the guys are wrong)( don't evr say a nasty joke about the girl in a bath)
hey at least you are not alone when it comes to saying weird and stupid stuff with out thinking..... its like a curse.
if you have a crush on her thats probably something you should of broughten up like a few days after the convorsation or at all.
if i were the girl i would be embarassed and think that you didnt like me.
so i think you might have steered her in the wrong direction if you like her.