Doe she trust me?!
Question: There is a girl in my class who was involved and her bf dumped her for no reason (what an ***) and I made it clear I was concerned about her
5 days ago she started getting shy around me and wouldn't make eye contact (possibly b/c one of our mutual friends told her I liked her) but two days later she came into 1st period misty-eyed and the teacher asked her out of the room to see what was wrong
Next period I asked her if she was ok , she slowly nodded
The next day she was still upset so in 6th period during a group activity I asked her what was wrong ,twice, she ignored me
I wouldn't say we are close friends but we are kinda buddies
I've sent her signs I'm inrested for about a month now but for las two weeks she was involved (and got dumped)
It hurs to see her hurt anshe won't let me help, she lets her other friends help but not me, why is this?
Answers: There is a girl in my class who was involved and her bf dumped her for no reason (what an ***) and I made it clear I was concerned about her
5 days ago she started getting shy around me and wouldn't make eye contact (possibly b/c one of our mutual friends told her I liked her) but two days later she came into 1st period misty-eyed and the teacher asked her out of the room to see what was wrong
Next period I asked her if she was ok , she slowly nodded
The next day she was still upset so in 6th period during a group activity I asked her what was wrong ,twice, she ignored me
I wouldn't say we are close friends but we are kinda buddies
I've sent her signs I'm inrested for about a month now but for las two weeks she was involved (and got dumped)
It hurs to see her hurt anshe won't let me help, she lets her other friends help but not me, why is this?
You sound like a great caring guy. It sounds like you guys don't know eachother too well. Maybe she isn't sure if she can trust you with that information. Just be there for her and let her know that you will always be there if she needs someone to talk to or something. when she is ready to open up she will. Don't bug her about it, as she will think you are just trying to annoy her or something. Good luck, you sound like a great guy, keep it up!
its not that she doesnt trust you, she may not feel comfortable around you or she doesnt share the same interest in you as you do in her
im like this with boys, because she knows you like her shes become shy and perhaps feels uncomfortable around you.
she doesn't like you.
She might be a bit scared to get involved with anyone for a while after she got dumped?
Maybe back off for a week, then slowly try to get back where you were before. It can be pretty bad to get dumped suddenly.
She might like you, and doesn't want to let you see her cry
She is sad about being dumped. Maybe she still thinks she likes this a hole boy. Girls are so emotional in highschool, its crazy. But i'd say to give her some space. Don't talk to her unless she talks to you. Play hard to get. Bacially be there for her but only when she asks you to. A boy trying to comfort you when you don't want it can be really annoying. So before she is totally turned off my you, i'd stop trying so hard. And try not to like just one girl (unless you are in a relationship with her) its more fun when you don't have all your eggs in one basket. enjoy highschool, don't waste it on a girl who doesn't see you. You'll meet the right person sometime. good luck.