When I pleasure myself, I feel get grossed out that im pleasuring myself?!
Question: Its weird like ill start, and then once my "heart rate" goes up.. The first thing that goes threw my mine, is omg this is the job of a guy.. I like feel discussted and I need to stop.. But 15 minutes im up to it again, but once again im grossed out after starting.. Why is this, any tips? Im scared that when I have sex this will happen, even when my bf is doing it..
Answers: Its weird like ill start, and then once my "heart rate" goes up.. The first thing that goes threw my mine, is omg this is the job of a guy.. I like feel discussted and I need to stop.. But 15 minutes im up to it again, but once again im grossed out after starting.. Why is this, any tips? Im scared that when I have sex this will happen, even when my bf is doing it..
we are all program to think that sex is bad and playing with yourself is just not acceptable!! but everyone plays with themselves! you need not to think about right and wrong when doing this it will always kill the mood! think dirty thoughts and just let yourself go and when your done pull up your pants wash your hands and go call someone or go to the grocery store your still the same person nothing changed you just did what everyone does and look you dont see them any diff they wont be able to tell the diff either!!! dont worry so much about it!
For some reason I can never really "pleasure myself" I think it's gross and weird. I rather my fiance do it. It seems right to me that way. Not sure why.
I wouldn't feel grossed out if I were you. Pretty much almost everyone does it. It is natural and you are not weird or gross. People have urges and it is just hormones...You cannot stop them. Just relax and do what you want. Don't worry so much!
My girlfriend had the same problem. Don't feel pressured into doing it or not. Its really common among girls -- especially religious ones. Completely natural -- Don't feel bad. I think when its your boyfriend: IT will be fine.
It's your job to find out what feels good for you, so that when you are with a guy then you can help him pleasure you. It's silly to be grossed out, it's your body and you can do what you like with it. How old are you?
Well if you are grossed out about it then don't do it. If you do get grossed out when your boyfriend does it then I would go get help because it sounds like you have issues with sex and you need to work on that issue
not only guys do that! i do it and im a girl. u need to let your fears go
i did too but you need to realize your body is YOUR body and you should be grossed out by it. And you wont feel that way with sex.
Relax! Everybody feel that way!
Everybody pleasure them selfs and it's a proven fact!
Relax take a deep breath and enjoy it, learn your body ,,,make yourself feel better and thats would bring you happiness. Whenever people are sexually unsatisfied they get aggressive, so pleasure yourself and don't think about anything else!
And if can pleasure yourself in a front of your partner that is the best! HOT! BIGGEST TURN ON!!!
Good luck!
well its differnt because m****ing your self is gross but whenn you do with someone so i think i dont know but i give opions anyways on what i think well it will be dif because everyone on the planet earth does it lol wit the dude or women or wateve so like its they way you think dont let it go through your mind pretend it never happend to u
Masturbation is not for everyone, Maybe you just feel that as you said it's a job for a guy.
IF you are of age then I see no problem with going to the next level with your boyfriend, IF you are ready!!!!
Hope that helped. Good luck!
Julie hey where are you from?nyways you should not get grossed out its human nature youe Are supposed to get in touch with your body its yours.Its perfectly normal.I felt like that when i was little but sometimes i kinda get that feeling..i think it has to do with our hormones.But just wait for a time that you are completly comfortable with yourself.LIKe in the shower take your time...like just do it and enjoy while you cAn.Or in yourbed dont do it when your mind is on something else and your just doing it to be doing it.Do it when your body is calling for it make sure you are completly undistracted,calm,comfortable,its totally inocent just remember that its your body and its simply just YOUR pleasure.
Even when you know, intellectually, that masturbation isn't wrong...sometimes the things we are raised to believe "haunt" us & guilt sets in. It's hard to overcome, if you've been taught to associate masturbation with shame. I really think that's likely to be the main cause at your "disgust" because you're doing nothing wrong...you're touching your body in a way that feels good -- what is innately wrong about that? Nothing. As a mom of 3 little ones, I can tell you that even small children do it. They do it because it's a pleasurable sensation...they are not pervs LOL It is normal & natural. That's why they do it.