SEX....ooo?!
Question: Im getting older and i'm starting to think about sex but of course i dont want to do it yet. but i still get urges which results in discharge. This might sound weird but can someone tell me what sex feels like, and how to tell if your ready?
Answers: Im getting older and i'm starting to think about sex but of course i dont want to do it yet. but i still get urges which results in discharge. This might sound weird but can someone tell me what sex feels like, and how to tell if your ready?
As my grandfather once told me, "you'll be ready when I say you're ready." He never told me I was ready. He was right.
Well only YOU know when your ready.. n in most cases first times hurt... it feels great.. but only when ur ready..
Sometimes u do bleed cuz skin down there tears.. n its usually a "bad" hurt at first...
it hurts like a beezy the 1st time
It's best when you are married otherwise it's just sex and there is no love involved. Don't give in when everyone else does otherwise you will have regrets.
finger yourself...thats close to the feeling.
I would really reccomend being in a committed relationship before you have sex. It really made it alot more comfortable for me. Losing my virginity really didn't seem like a big deal.
It doesn't have to be a big deal if you don't want to make it one.
You're ready when:
You know how pregnancy occurs
You know all the forms of contraception
You know what to do when a condom breaks
You know where to buy Plan B
You aren't terrified if your parents find out
If you and your partner can laugh in awkward i situations
If you are comfortable with your body
If you are able to talk about sex and use the proper terms
If you know Pre Ejaculation can still get you pregnant
If you can support a child
If you can support yourself
If you are doing it because you want to not because you feel you have to
If you aren't doing it to just "do it"
If you aren't doing it just cause your partner wants to
If you are all of these or most, you're ready.
Remember, if you second think it, it means you're not ready.
First time you have sex:
It usually hurts a little bit
It's awkward because you both don't know what to do (if he's a virgin)
You often stumble and make weird sounds like painful and pleasureable
After a while you may not be able to handle it and have to stop
or you may feel better after a while
Your hymen usually breaks and you may bleed a little bit
Once you've done it a couple times, sex feels great :]
the pain can be masked if your slightly buzzed the first time, or just use a bunch of lube ya know??
i think most girls bleed their first time, I did at least. And yeah its painful....
girly my first time hurt. but then the first few times after that it got alittle better. if you are questioning if you are ready then you aren't ready. you have your whole life to experience the problems sex sometimes brings. take your time and dont rush to go find out what its all about.... just to let you know from a womans point of view, it only feels good and right when you are with someone who is in love with you as much as you are with him. married sex is better than unmarried sex. trust me.