MY FIRST TIME for sex and is there any preparing i need to do b4 we do it!?!?!?!
Question: once i feel that im finally ready with my bf is there and preparing.what shud i do to make it perfect. as in what do i need to do on my part..shud we do it in a bed floor im clueless and does it hurt!?!? for the first time...whats the best positions to do it in !>!> any help plezz!?!?
Answers: once i feel that im finally ready with my bf is there and preparing.what shud i do to make it perfect. as in what do i need to do on my part..shud we do it in a bed floor im clueless and does it hurt!?!? for the first time...whats the best positions to do it in !>!> any help plezz!?!?
Don't get drunk.
Make sure you are ready though. Once done, you can never ever go back.
Do whatever makes YOU feel comfortable. Doing it on the floor makes it less romantic for the first time in my opinion.
Candles would definatly make its mark in your memory later in your life and I'm sure either way, it will be perfect.
As for positions for the first time I think the most romantic way would be missionary so that you guys can look each other in the eyes and be able to tell each other you love each other while doing it at the same time. Any other postion (for the first time) isn't as romantic in my opinion.
And I hear that it hurts ALOT the first time. And after the first time I don't think you'll want to do it again for another couple of days at least.
Just remember: Use protection, make sure he's the one you want to give your virginity to, and make sure he loves you first.
Uhm, you sound to young and immature for sex. I mean, if you have to come on here and ask this....
I'd wait a few more years if I were you...
Just do what comes naturally. No need to prepare.
thats weird
what are you going to do be like oh baby i read this works on yahoo answers
i think you should figure out your own sex life
69 is best and it does hurt ha
Just make sure that you are on some form of birth control and that he is using a condom! Also, be sure that he's recently been tested to make sure he doesn't have any STDs. If you are a virgin, there is a chance he'll break your hymen, which can hurt a bit. I would go slowly and if it starts to hurt at all, tell him and stop. Things will get better over time!
whore you're only in the 9th grade focus on education other than pleasing the pimp you skank.
Wait til your married.
Don't expect it to be good the first time. It will more than likely be awkward, so just know that going in to it.
just be prepared for the pain, it fekkin g hurt like hell the first time I did it. and the second lol but it'll eventually get better. just make sure its with a person who understands that if you feel the need to stop, they know to stop. :]
Make sure that it is what you want (don't be coaxed into anything you aren't ready for) make sure the guy is worth it and use protection
I would suggest you go slow as it may hurt a bit. The first time is generally not enjoyable because of the akwardness and the slight pain and discomfort you may feel. Maybe you can make sure its not a jungle down there..lol Just relax because no matter how much you plan it wont turn out how you expect it to be. And dont forget protection!
Take it from me. Sex is not that important. When I was younger, I used to think that it was the most important thing in the world....Sure the morning after, I woke up with a smile on my face but in all honesty; make sure the person is someone special.....
Just do what comes natural. You'll "know" what to do. I would suggest missionary for the first time though (guy on top).
It doesn't hurt. You will, however, have a small amount of blood. I don't know the correct term and apologize for being crude, but that is your "cherry" that "popped". Again, sorry for being crude. :-(
Be sure to use a condom!!
in preparation you should both go down to the health department and get tested for std's and get birth control because even though its your first time you still can get pregnant or a sexually transmitted disease. you can go anonymously and you don't need a parent if your under 18. However I personnally think you should wait until your married.
get married.
you're not ready, because you have all these silly little kid questions.
you have a lot of growing up to do, if you're gonna be doing grown up things.
go listen to some dr. laura, for a week or two. then have the nerve to ask your silly question.
good luck
Get married, make sure he has a reliable job.
Don't do it Babe, please wait and the anticipation will be even better hence you waited. But since you're not going to listen to me, if you do the deed, protect yourself and have him wear a condom. I think you should really wait though. : )
Listen to Robert above me, he's telling you the correct thing and I agree.
Prepare by getting married first.
once you do it it's done!! it does hurt, you CAN get preg, you CAN catch a disease, nothing is fool proof! don't do it unless you are prepared for the concequences, pregnance, AIDS, other STD's...IT ONLY TAKES ONCE!!
If your hymen isn't popped yet, it may be painful, but for some woman it isn't. I'm assuming your pretty young, so I'd be sure & have him wear a condom and make sure your protected. Remember, condoms aren't 100% guaranteed, and you can still get pregnant..so if your not ready to be a mother I strongly urge you NOT to have sex until your ready to become a mother. If you feel as though your ready to have sex but not be a mother just yet; I suggest you get on birth control pills, like condoms, they aren't 100% guaranteed but with condoms & birth control pills there is almost no way your at risk for getting pregnant, but there still is a chance. And also, don't forget that having sex is a humongous risk for AID's, STD's and any other form of infection, ask your boyfriend if he has been tested for anything and if he hasn't I suggest you tell him to, before you have sex. Good luck & be safe!
EDIT: I just read your info & you are SO not ready to have sex in 9th grade, wait until AT LEAST college. I think you should read what I've said and think about this again. I understand that you stated, "one i feel that i'm finally ready", but that probably should not be anytime soon. Think it over a few times. Once again, be safe and good luck.
hey my name is deanna too!!! you're representing deanna's very poorly that other guy was right WHORE
You're not ready at all, if these are the kinds of questions you're asking.
Have fun being a statistic.
Edit: You're only a freshman in high school? I see doom & disaster all around you, baby. It's practically unavoidable.
Just an observation... I read the answers already. The guys are the ones on here that say "Wait!" The ladies are different. They are sharing a bit of their own experiences and telling you to be sure to use protection. I don't know how old you are, but I hope you are at least a senior in high school. That seems to be when most girls can stand it anymore and want to find out what the big secret is all about. Shoot for romance. Candles, something pretty to wear, soft music and condoms! Take a bath together first. It's fun and you will both be clean.
Heya. it sounds like you really want to commit to your boyfriend and thats adirable. Sex is the biggest commitment to a person you can make so it is best that you love them. My only concern, honey, is that you said yourself you are 'clueless' and want to know 'does it hurt'. I suggest you do some reading and talk to friends and even, if you can, your parents. It is best to talk - you dont want an important moment like this passing you by without you realising the significance of it. Sex is a mature act made (ideally) by two consenting adults, therefore you must be aware and approach this with a level head - as much as you love your boyfriend. Good luck, sweetie.
Just relax. dont think about it too much. and i would suggest to do it on a bed. its a lot more comfortable than a floor. and it depends on who you are if it will hurt or not. for me it hurt really bad but not THAT bad. if you are just stating out then i would suggest to do it in the missionary position (guy on top) because you dont really know how to do any other postition. and in the missonary position the guy does all the work. im sure you will be fine. just relax.
good luck =]
Get drunk, it makes it better