Lower Sex Drive??!
Question: I have a much lower sex drive then I did about 6 months ago. It seemed to just happen all of a sudden. I can't explain it. I do want to please my boyfriend of 4 years but I can't get into it at all. HELP!!
Answers: I have a much lower sex drive then I did about 6 months ago. It seemed to just happen all of a sudden. I can't explain it. I do want to please my boyfriend of 4 years but I can't get into it at all. HELP!!
Ok. Don't do it to solely please your boyfriend. You want it for your OWN pleasure, too, right?? Don't do things just for him, you need to get something out of it too or you just become essentially a sex slave. He needs to RESPECT your wishes and needs too, just remember that.
Sometimes women experience lower sex drives due to hormones (the pill, in particular, is known for this). There are a number of physiological problems that could have a stake in this, but most likely, it is psychological.
For any sexual problem, there is usually a psychological problem behind it. For women, it's usually because of relationship problems. Maybe for you, it's because you are trying to place the pleasure of your boyfriend over your pleasure, which you don't have to do !! (I gathered this from your question, which may or may not be the case).
If you aren't talking in depth about sex with your boyfriend, you should definitely start.
If none of that seems applicable to you, perhaps seek out a sex therapist.
Good luck!
Ok when i had my son i found my sex drive, slowed etc... If you have had a child it can be normal and may take you time to get back into it, if not maybe you should look at your diet Iron is very important and many people especially females have low iron levels and don't know it (something that happened to a friend around your age with no children) She had her levels checked and was put on iron tablets to bring her levels back up so it could be something you could look into!
Another thing it could be is because you have been with your partner for some time now you could be getting bored with what your doing try mixing things up a bit, role play add toys, ask your man to try something you like or have wanted to try for some time i found this helped after i had my son!
It just sounds like you're bored. Try something new.
Stay away from wedding cake.
My wife had some wedding cake and it lowered her sex drive too.
Well try to figure out what it is. Any medications could be a factor. along with that stress could do it. I was in your situation and it's not fun. I tried a lot to increase my sex drive but nothing worked, exercising nor dieting. I then found a natural herbal enhancer which is meant to increase the libido and other things I've noticed. It's called Hersolution and it does all of that and more. Even my orgasms are that much better. Read up about it at herenhancement.com where I saved on it at the time. Nothing worked better in boosting my libido and making my sex feel that much better.