Sex help???!
Question: Ive been with my boyfriend nearly a year, and at first we had regular sex, but for the past few months ive got 0 sex drive, i just never feel in the mood, i just feel tierd and bored! to be fair though, i never do anything to him, i try but i cant i just never feel like it. it is also quite painful when we do it and i just want it to be over! has this happened to anyone else???
Answers: Ive been with my boyfriend nearly a year, and at first we had regular sex, but for the past few months ive got 0 sex drive, i just never feel in the mood, i just feel tierd and bored! to be fair though, i never do anything to him, i try but i cant i just never feel like it. it is also quite painful when we do it and i just want it to be over! has this happened to anyone else???
your worring about something, it could be anything, doesnt mean your gone off him. or you could think about that too. i know how you feel but it should pass, im sure you will get back on there and have fun. if something got you down, or you had a fight with someone, just troubled mind. dont force it. and dont have sex if you dont want to its sure to hurt if you dont want it. your man should respect you and leave sex till your ready. try playing around, have fun maybe that will get you going, have sexy fun. it should work, take care,
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This happened to me. When my g/friend is horny I just dont fancy her, Dont know why its not that I want anyone else, Its just that I dont want it.
your not alone chick.im like this since i had a baby 8 months ago and im never in the mood.i try to do things like dress in some sexy lingerie and this does work but its like i have to force myself sometimes bcoz i feel its not fair on him to go without.try toys and lingerie or watch a sexy dvd together.it usually does the trick for me.
Hmm..Ive never been that bad, and if im not in the mood i will usually do it anyway and make the best of it. Or at least do something else to him. Remember hun you have to keep him satisfied..Im not saying hje will cheat on you but he needs sex.
I'm sorry. You just really need to try. Go to Barnes and Noble and go the the sex section and their is a book called "Bad girl sex for good girls". It changed my life and how I look and act about sex.
That happened to me a few months ago.
It hurts because your just not interested.
Try watching porn, if your not into that then if you have any fantasy's try acting them out.
Worked for me.
I think it's down to it being painful for you so it will make you not want it go speak to a proffessional about it because it really shouldn't hurt x
are you feeling depressed at all?
i suffer from depression and sometimes i have months when my sex drive is just completely non existent.
Buy some sexy underwear, eat more chocolate, walnuts and banana, this stuff really works. The problem may be in your poor diet. Buy some sexy fragrance for him, the one that you like, you will feel more attraction, guaranteed. Also maybe you are too conscious about something, if so just get drunk and get pissed!
P.S. If it's painful, this maybe a sign you have some infection, even candida can make sex a painful experience. Get treatment, use lubricants and relax!
maybe something bothering you? or maybe try and spice tings up by trying something different and try to relax sometimes i feel liike this 2...its jus one of those things
It could be stress...Are you stressed out. I have been overwhelmed before and it takes your libido down. Along with that your diet could play a part. It's just different for everyone. I have been in your situation and tried all that to increase my sex drive. Until I found a natural herbal enhancer called Hersolution which is meant to increase the libido and a number of other things. I tried it and was quite pleased and as the time went on while on it, it just got better and better. Read up about it at herenhancement.com where I saved on it at the time. I'm in the mood whenever I need to be, it's so great and along with that my orgasms are like supercharged. Well I hope this helps and good luck
you need more foreplay at the beginning itsted of just jumping right into intercourse! ease into it.
Sweetheart it sounds like you are answering your own question, it would appear that you have drifted apart sexually and mentally. This happens to couples all the time and is not at all unusual, it happened to me after being married for thirty years