Should I be concerned that my boyfriend likes me to kick his b***s?!
Question: My new boyfriend actually likes to have me kick him in the groin during sex. He says it really gets him horny and that he can take the pain because he has a really high pain tolerance. That may be true but I am still worried that I may hurt him. Should I be concerned? Does he have some mental problem? He started out just having me squeeze them but then he moved on to punching and kicking. I guess I am pretty impressed with his toughness. He can take full force boot kicks naked. But I am still worried that something is wrong.
Answers: My new boyfriend actually likes to have me kick him in the groin during sex. He says it really gets him horny and that he can take the pain because he has a really high pain tolerance. That may be true but I am still worried that I may hurt him. Should I be concerned? Does he have some mental problem? He started out just having me squeeze them but then he moved on to punching and kicking. I guess I am pretty impressed with his toughness. He can take full force boot kicks naked. But I am still worried that something is wrong.
Really?...Kicking..?...
Not Licking, right?...
Woe, what ever floats his boat, I guess, never heard anything like that before...~Careful, *one day you might get kicked back!..~.that would suck!(lol), But all the power to you!, I wish you the best of luck!, always & forever....
Sounds like he is trying to get you to make him sterile
That or it is a twisted fetish
some people enjoy a little pain with sex, like s&m, but a hard kick to the balls sounds like a little much. Perhaps he should see a councillor or you two together, to figure out how to have his sex fetish incorporated in to your sex life with a little less ball kicking, oucheeeee!!
that will affect his sperm, big time. eventually, it can cause sterilization. this is probably one of the weirdest things i've ever heard. i don't think it's very normal; it may be considered a kind of s & m, but ball kicking is pretty extreme.
Sounds like your guy is into pain. To put it mildly. I've heard of guys who enjoy having their testicles squeezed a bit but kicked? No thanks. Just the thought of that makes me nauseous.
If he enjoys pain, try to incorporate more of the S&M stuff in the bedroom. Whips, biting, etc. My worry would be that if you keep kicking him there, you're going to do some serious damage. Or, one of his balls will become twisted and that's only repairable through surgery. There's a reason baseball players wear cups. Our testicles are fragile. Most of us don't like to be hit there.
i'm not sure if it's the kicking in the groin that feels good to him, or the area behind the testicles. I was reading an article on Cosmo Online the other day about that. you'll have to check it out, and maybe try it and see if he likes that a little better? It would definitely be safer for him!