A little confused...please help!?!
Question: Ok, I've been wondering for a while about this. It's nothing serious, but here goes. I lost my virginity when I was 15 (i'm almost 19) to my boyfriend of 3 years. When we had sex the first time, I didn't bleed at all. I wasn't too worried about it because I went to the gyno and had everything checked about a week later. But anyways, this may be a silly question. My bf and I broke up when I left for college. When I got to college, I met my NEW boyfriend, and we started having sex about a week later. We were always EXTREMELY careful because I'm not on birthcontrol. When we had sex, for the first few weeks we were having sex, it hurt everytime and occasionally i would bleed. I have slept with 3 other people between my hs bf and my college bf and never had this happen before. Could this be because my new boyfriend is so, um, well-endowed? Just curious, I'm not worried about health complications.Thanks!
Answers: Ok, I've been wondering for a while about this. It's nothing serious, but here goes. I lost my virginity when I was 15 (i'm almost 19) to my boyfriend of 3 years. When we had sex the first time, I didn't bleed at all. I wasn't too worried about it because I went to the gyno and had everything checked about a week later. But anyways, this may be a silly question. My bf and I broke up when I left for college. When I got to college, I met my NEW boyfriend, and we started having sex about a week later. We were always EXTREMELY careful because I'm not on birthcontrol. When we had sex, for the first few weeks we were having sex, it hurt everytime and occasionally i would bleed. I have slept with 3 other people between my hs bf and my college bf and never had this happen before. Could this be because my new boyfriend is so, um, well-endowed? Just curious, I'm not worried about health complications.Thanks!
I also lost my V at 15 and was just extremely glad i didnt bleed everywhere like my friends joked i would, im 17 now and my current boyfriend hurts me too and bleeding occurs..
I feel its because im nervous as he uses different, um, techniques as my past and when nervous your virgina muscles clench, and you cant actually control it no matter how relxed you think you are!
Pain i know, but some boys are..You know :p
It could be, but there are lubricants like KY Jelly and others you can buy over-the-counter. I would go on birth control and have partner use condom if I were you though.