My boyfriend is trying to convince me to have anal sex!?!
Question: I say no!
I think its really wrong but ive never tried it before.
Do u agree with him or me lol?
Give sum reasons why i sud, or sudnt
Any past experiences, or stories are welcome!
=]
Thanks for any answers
x
Answers: I say no!
I think its really wrong but ive never tried it before.
Do u agree with him or me lol?
Give sum reasons why i sud, or sudnt
Any past experiences, or stories are welcome!
=]
Thanks for any answers
x
Its OK for him its not his bum
Do what I did, say let me put this cucumber up yours first and see if you like it.
He never asked again
if u dont want to do it he sud respect your decision .
It's your choice. I think it's really gross.
If you don't want to do it, tell him no. End of.
omg anal feels like taking a crap backwards (in my opinion). it was terribly uncomfortable and the opposite of sexy. i say if you don't feel comfortable with doing something dont! he needs to understand, because having sex takes 2-- both need to come to agreements about the way that makes it enjoyable for everyone.
Dude, way too much bacteria! That's how you get some major infections and diseases. If you don't feel 100% on it DON'T!
If you are uncomfortable with even the idea of it... than he should not be pushing you. I had a similar problem with my now ex-boyfriend... and HE is the one who dumped me... because I'm just not into that. So if it makes you uncomfortable... just say no!
dont do it if you dont want to , id ask him why hed want to, i just dont get it (but some mormons do it because its not considered sex before marriage cuz you cant get pregnant, but thats just weird.)
only do it if you really want to and you are relaxed whilst doing it, it may take sum time befor he can 'put it in' fully as will take time for you to learn to accomodate him! my past experiances were not good we tried and tried but i just couldnt handle it lol lots of lube is a must!
good look hun =]
x
Well there is no danger of getting pregnant.
I love anal sex. We have a lot of nerve endings back there. My orgasms are much stronger that way. Just use a lot of lube and tell your boyfriend to go slow. It will hurt in the beginning just push through the pain, once he is in and going you should have a wonderful time...
I agree with you. Sex isn't mean't to be have that way. Also if he does it to ruff or goes into deep it can hurt your anus. The anus wasn't mean't to have stuff go inside it. It's only an exit area.
oh yes def a past experience! most girls are not sure about doing it but end up doing it cos they want to please the bf or just curious then!
I'll just say that if you do 'do it' then make sure his extremelly slow when you know! as if its forced it will hurt you as muscles there arent used to it.
It feels actually nice! which i know sounds mad but it does, maybe its just one of those things u wanna try, u can say you've done so then!
I had this situation with my bf too. I agree with you. I think it's dirtty. Everbody is entitled to their own opinion.
I think it is very over exagerated by porn, which makes guys think it's normal. I think a lot of guys try to pressure girls into doing it. The issue i have with it is, what's wrong with sex? I know the other way's tighter, but if your girl doesn't want to do it, then leave her alone. It's up to her.
Also, it can be very painful for the girl, which is another reason i am against it...... and that's why porn shouldn't be exagerated, because it gives guys the wrong idea.
One rule in life you should follow--if you dont agree or dont like---dont do it.Should you decide to do it then make sure he wears a condom.
some like it some dont so just say no if u dont want to or buy a strap on and show him how its done after all thats where the male g spot is and a womens isnt so i say he tries it first if he keeps pestering
If you really don't want to do it then he should respect that. I personally could not do it and know my partner feels the same
In a loving sexual relationship you shouldn't ever feel pressured to do something you don't want to do.
Anal sex is most definitely an aquired taste, and not everyone enjoys it. There does seem to be a lot of men who expect it, but you really should only do it it you truly want to, and not just to please your boyfriend.
If you do decide to try it, USE PROTECTION, use lots of lube, make sure you are relaxed. If you are not relaxed about it it will hurt. It is painful to start with anyway.
Personally I think it is an out hole and not an in hole! And if he keeps on at you, go and buy an average sized d*ldo, lube it up and say 'If you're so keen, let's see how you like it!'.
I heard other women say they've tried it and that it was ok, once it was in but hurt a bit at first.
I've also heard people saying it can damage the muscles and cause incontinence, which is something you perhaps should be aware of and look up before you try it.
Personally I wouldn't entertain the idea. Bums are for pooing out of not for sticking things inside.
It's up to you.
tell him he is a pain in the ash
It is your body. If you feel it is wrong then don't do it. You should not submit to his wishes if you have reservations about it. Once you said no: a gentleman would acquiesce to your wishes without mentioning it again..
It is not wrong, but if you are not comfortable with it... then don't do it. Sexual encounters are supposed to make us feel good... not uncomfortable.
if he loves you then he should respect your decision. im a guy and i somehow think that anal is kinda nasty. i mean the girl craps out of it. but im still not sure if im ever gonna do it or not. lol
my boyfriend what me to do it but so far have not.
but it like anything you have to give it ago. maybe one day.
why any decent male wants to do this is beyond me,sorry but the dicision is yours if you don't want to do it ( DONT,)
iv been married for 26 years been together for 28,we have respect and love for each other,and a wonderful sexual relationship,it only gets better,but this is one position iv never been in nor would i ever want to be in and that goes for my hubby,making love is special between two people,and in my mind ,anal sex isn't,if you say no stick to your guns girl xx good luck
its degrading and hurts like hell.god gave us that hole to crap and not that thing
If he's nagging you over it when you've said no, i'd think seriously about getting rid of him, because he won't stop.
is normal ,if is protected sex. :)
Fancy a bum? =D
I wouldnt know, I havent tried it, but theres a first time for everything!
It really hurts!
But it can be fun if you're in the mood.
It's not really "wrong" is it?
Do it once and see what you think - you don't wanna be on your death bed wondering what it's like!
Ok - well, why does he want anal sex?
Does he think you are a bit... slack OR maybe just trying to do something new?
How serious is the relationship?
I certainly don't think you should do it with anyone, someone who you are *very* serious about. You don't want him telling his mates at the pub -_-
I have had anal with one boyfriend and i didn't really like it. Its just sensitive but not pleasurable... it just feels like you need to poo.
I think you should do it, if he just wants to try it - then if you don't want to do it again, you just say you didn't like it... instead of being a prude about it.