Is My Vagina Too Small?!
Question: When my boyfriend fingers me, all that he can fit is one finger, and it hurts! We havent had sex yet, but Im scared that when we do he wont "fit". So, im really nervous. Is this normal!?
Answers: When my boyfriend fingers me, all that he can fit is one finger, and it hurts! We havent had sex yet, but Im scared that when we do he wont "fit". So, im really nervous. Is this normal!?
The vagina is highly elastic. Your hymen, assuming it's intact (not necessarily, even if you're a virgin), your nerves, and possibly a lack of natural lubrication, can make it seem like there's no way a finger can enter you comfortably, much less a penis in the future.
But it can. Consider that later on, a baby passes through, and their skulls are not collapsible (although they do compress a little).
Take it slow. Don't hesitate to let him know if he hurts you. No force or pushing, with finger or later in sex--until you are experiencing no discomfort on penetration, you're the boss. If he cares for you, he'll go along with this, not wanting to hurt you. If he refuses, then aren't you glad your first experience wasn't with a guy who didn't even care if he hurt you?
The more nervous = the more tense = the tighter. You might not enjoy it but your boyfriend will love it! Too be less-tight, just relax and breathe. You can't be nervous if you don't want to be super super tight that he can't get in!
ur vagina has muscles in it so when u stick something large in there it wll exspan, i mean ur suppose to puch a bay through that, when he goes inside u breathe out cause the muscles will contract and it wont hurt
The vagina will only be penetrable when you are turned on otherwise it will hurt and will not be easy getting anything in there. Next time take it slow, then when your bodies ready it will be much easier.
It's normal.
It feels small because your hymen is still there since you have never had intercourse.
I could only fit one finger in until after the first time I had intercourse.
By the way it sounds, you are quite young. It is best to wait to have sex until you are completely aware of all the possiblities that can happen. 70% of women have STDs now. That means that 7-10 of your friends that are sexual active, have a sexually transmitted disease. I am not trying to scare you, believe me. I am just trying to give you a warning before that phase of activity starts in your life.
As far as being too small, if you are young (14-17) your body is still adjusting to all of the changes that you go through when you are becoming a women. Including your hips widening.
Most young guys do not know what they are doing when they are "fingering" a girl, and then end up causing soreness. You must be well lubricated, and relaxed. Talk to him to let him know the pressure, speed and if you are not lubericated enough yet.
Goodluck, and be thankful that you are a small girl.
Just relax, the vagina is very flexable so I don't think you can be too small. Just relax next time he fingers you and tell him when you want penile penetration for him to go extremely slow and gentle.
Good luck!!
just tell him 2 use luge so it will go in easy